Heres's a very short intro...I'm 21, will be graduating from uni in 2 months so have a lot of work on. I used to be a major pot head which saw the downfall of my social life. I had whats known as a drug induced transient psycotic episode...i.e. for about 2 weeks I completely lost my mind. Thing is it passed faster than it all begun, however things never went back to the way they were. I shut out the few friends I had, and am still recovering 2 years down the line. I have been an absolute loner lately, despite being at uni, and have been playing a lot of call of duty to compensate for having no life. Amongst all this I live in a new area, know noone and dont do anything apart from chill.
I have had enough time to chill now and I want to get back out there, build my social cicle, and have the confidence to chat up all these beautiful woman I see around me, and not chicken out of these interactions from coming unstuck on what to say.
I literally have no idea what areas I need to work on first, and in what order. I know there is a lot of stuff I need to work on, but what first? I don't think I will have much success without a proper plan or if I try to change to much too soon. Really need to get some mates and build up my confidence, because i highly doubt any girl's going to be interested in a ps3 addicted guy with no mates.
Wish I calmed down on the smoking, it completely ruined my life, but that is 2 years ago and I need to get over it, get a life and get a girlfriend (or 2). Anyway enough of me babbling about my sh"t life so far and please point me in the right direction. I need help and have noone else!