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    Default Damn Friendzone

    Hey guys,
    First post. AFC aspiring to be a PUA. Halfway through reading 'The Game'. Awsome book. So here I am 11 at night, just spent the night with 'a friend'. She had a boyfriend but is now single. I managed to makeout with her 'kiss close' while she was dating this douche. Now she's broken up with him and she's wantin to hang out as frinds. Went bowling with her and her friends, ignored her a little while obtaining the approval of her friends. Went good. went to have drinks with her afterwords, told her of some chicks I was messin with and that was ok. Then she starts telling me "I'm a good guy that neds to find that special blah blah blah" I know I'm on the right path but I still need to get that kiss close leading to the f close. She's a cold one but I really need to tag this one probably for my own ego and self confidence boost. HELLP!!
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    Default Re: Damn Friendzone

    Don't see where you're in the friend zone.
    Can you detail that a bit more before I can answer you productively?

    From what you said, it seems she was attracted when she was with her BF, but now thta she's not anymore... She acts a friend? Is that so?

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    Default Re: Damn Friendzone

    She flat out told me "I like you as a friend. I like hanging out with you and I destroy relationships, which is why we should be friends." I still the she's attractred, but she's holding back for some reason. I need a way to quit being 'a good guy that has alot going for him' and close her.

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    Default Re: Damn Friendzone

    So,

    1- You were attractive enough for her to make out w/ you when she had a BF, but not anymore.

    2- You're a good (nice?) guy and she's too bad for you (the "I destroy relationships" BS)

    Well, it seems to me that you could make out again w/ her but it may not be as simple as you may think...

    1- First read this. Make her understand you don't wanna be her friend.

    2- Who's speaking about a relationship? You don't know what tomorrow would be like, she doesn't either. Tell her that you don't even know if you want a real relationship.

    You: "I feel good with you, I KNOW you are attracted to me or you wouldn't have let me kiss you but... Who knows about the future. I don't expect us to be really BF/GFat least for now. All I know is I want you. We don't even have to say anything to anyone. We keep it for ourselves and if it fails it fails. Maybe you'll bore me and I'll end our 'relationship'... Maybe I'm not as nice as you think. Good is one thing, nice is another..."

    Not words for words of course. But like that you show:

    a) you are not interested in ONLY friendship...

    b) ... But you don't know if you wanna be a regular couple for now.
    Subtext: Let's be fvck buddies and see what happens from there.

    c) You keep it secret like that she doesn't have the pressure that they/your friends (and /or herself) will judge her if she doesn't stay w/ you long. (She won't be seen as a slvt)

    d) you still show desire for her.

    e) You act as dominant (at least her equal) by saying you could be the one ending the 'relationship', not only her and good doesn't mean nice.

    Because she seems in control for now and you don't want that.


    Still, while giving your speech (not all at once, but in a whole evening it's quite possible), show with your behavior (teasing her, negging her a bit but not much, don't be nice --yet don't be an ass, huh?--: for her to understand you're not at her feet. Kino, you need to make her excited. The way you glance at her (another way to excite her): Be alpha, Say "I want you" with your eyes, in a determined way. don't use fun and humor too much but you can smile and make fun of HER...), that you mean what you're saying (act and speak 'secretly' to her too but while your with your friends, do not try to Isolate her before you feel she may accept this 'proposition').

    Last, don't show you're impatient, needy. Let her some room to digest the idea... And accept it.

    If, after all that, she's still a no go... Well, you will know she just used you to evade from a dying/unsatisfying relationship (with her ex).

    Now that she's free she has no need for you anymore.

    Hope it'll help.

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    Last edited by Alanswer; 03-25-2011 at 11:22 PM.

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    Default Re: Damn Friendzone

    Hey Alansewr,
    Thanks for the great advice. I seriously plan on using it. I know the best thing to do is move on but this creates a challenge to me which I can't stop mentally untill I succeed or fail. If I fail I fail. If I succeed I move on, or I fall in love(one in a hundred) and no one will ever hear from UPGRAYEDD again. HB7 btw. I have a field reprt I will post up also, nothing to do with LJBF chick. Thanks again for your detailed response Alanswer
    UPGRAYEDD


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