Hi everyone, new to the forums here. I'm really looking for some advice on getting my game back. I was never really good, but I had decent game, and lots of confidence to talk to pretty much anyone. I've had mild success with women in the past, but since about a year and a half ago I just lost all sense of how to work. It basically started with my ex (of 4 years - although I'll admit, I wasn't totally faithful and hooked up with a bunch of girls while going out with her). While we were together, I had the ability to really walk up to any girl. I guess the fear of rejection never matter, since I didn't need anything, so I had nothing on the line. Matter of fact, my buddies used to bring me to the bar to break the ice for them.
But since the end of our relationship, I've slept with one other girl (a couple times, and it started after I got ridiculously wasted and she basically came on to me). I just haven't been able to get find my way anymore, and really need some help. Does anyone have some advice on how to get my confidence back and re-open up and regain the ability to talk to anyone? Like I said, I wasn't really good before hand, so I'd like to get better in the process as well. But even since my breakup, I haven't even been able to close on girls who in the prior years would have been easy. I just can't get the confidence up to 1- talk to new girls, and 2- close on the girls I used to be able to.
Please help...