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    Default I have 13 months

    Howdy everyone...just joined...I have 13 months to master this sh1t. Why? Cause I graduate law school in 13 months...school dynamics is one thing, real world sh1t is entirely another....I'm in my late 20's..and Ive wasted waaaaay too much time studying...and now I'm smart (allegedly) but miserable.

    I've read the basic material by mystery and whomever....and I'll be the first to say: thta material is hard to pull at a school .

    Came on hear a few hours ago..saw a random post about some guy talking about "conquer your campus"; bought it...and I'm blown away with how accurate everything is (I'm only 40/132 pages in).

    I'm a trained nerd....any lay i've gotten in the past (which as been few and far inbetween), was by luck and drunkenness... There is a method here...and in the next 13 months..I'm going to find it.

    Wish me luck...I'll make frequent posts.

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    I suggest you start making yourself look cool first, you say you're a nerd so I can pretty much picture what you look like. You need to clean up how you look, lose the glasses if you have any, wear contacts. Also wearing cool name brand jeans such as levis 501s with designs.. slim or skinny is fine.. Have a nice stylish haircut, nothing that looks nerdy. Maybe you should try the mohawk look I hope you smell good because smelling good is another thing that women love. Always wear some good smelling cologne. Hy-gene is also important so make sure you shower of course.. Appearance is first my friend.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    Jack is making generalizations about you. Grooming and style are important, but they have nothing on self confidence. If you're the man, you can pick up chicks in a banana hammock.

    Don't put pressure on yourself to learn "this" in 13 months. You're only twenty and have a lifetime ahead of you. In 13 months, your understanding of game will be completely different, and the "this" that you will need to learn will be something new and perhaps more lofty.

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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    Thanks guys. Yea..i dont look like a nerd...at all infact. most people can't tell my background by looking at me..But I def need a look update. 13 months isn't the ultimte target I guess, ...I'm more trying to snap out of my introverted ways.
    I'm not used to being outgoing, I study all day, and it takes great effort to snap out of it...and get social at night. GREAT effort.
    During the day, I'm on key...I can talk to most anyone. I feel like I belong, and I'm out going. At night, I'm antisocial, get bad approach and social anxiety...so I order drink after drink after drink..so that by the time I'm not all anxious, I'm too drunk to hit on anyone anyways.... Gotta fix that!

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    Being a nerd is cool. Keep in mind that you aren't going to CHANGE your introversion, you will always:

    * take initiative to solve problems on your own before seeking help.
    * look "within" for personal worth, and enjoy this in solitude
    * seek validation only from yourself for your accomplishments

    But that doesn't mean you can't socialize or be outgoing. You're only trying to solve the byproduct of those introverted characteristics: inferior social skills as a result of not NEEDING interaction with others.

    Set out with one goal: to have conversation. Nothing more. And don't drink. Your brain can't condition itself for rewire under the influence.

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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    Thanks for getting back..super appreciate the input.

    Drinking is a huge problem for me. I have it in my mind it will fix everything...then I get too drunk and KNOW I sound like an idiot. So i give up and drink more. then around 8-9 drinks..I start not caring, hit on a few girls, get torched. Then am like WTF, fuck everything. haha...yea..not working.

    Anyways, ...you said it. Start a conversation. No motive for now....I can do that.

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    JonTylerDiPrince is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    You are a student of the game just as much as you are your career/profession. Do you drink when you're in class, taking a test, or really studying hard? probably not.

    You might want to even step back further from "starting a conversation" as your stepping stone. Just be comfortable being in a bar without ordering a drink. You don't even have to talk to anyone. Enter bar. Order a Soda Water, coke, or water, stay for an hour. and leave. It's not that hard.

    take the study seriously.

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    Default Re: I have 13 months

    to be honest, ive been READING this stuff for about a month now, DOING it for a week. you wouldnt believe how easy and logical all of this is after you fight your aa and hahe a few stories to tell. I nearly got layed on my first set ever, and even though it had a bit of luck in it, i could never have pulled it without this material. Im confindet that youlll achieve everything you ever dreamed of, and more , if you work for it.

    Good luck


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