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    TheUndertow is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default New to the game and new to pua forum

    After reading
    "the game" by Neil Strauss, I became entranced with the prospect of being able to take social situations, reduce them to their fundamental components, and use them to exert predictable outcomes to a certain extent. Just being granted a list of what the indicators of interest are proved to be a boon to my inner game, because during conversations with women, in hindsight, I realize that I've been getting a lot of ioi's. I just don't know what to do with them. Sure, I have learned that the general direction of communication is more predicated on body language and tonality of voice than what you say, but I know that my areas of interest are more into the subjects of science and philosophy, I'm not trying to say I'm smart or intelligent, but I just have a hard time stomaching small-talk because the awkwardness I feel when forced to subject myself to conversations that in my mind, have no value. I know how much of a conversation killer it is to talk to a girl about philosophy after she comes up and introduces herself at a party, so I end up stagnating in that area, it always ends up getting the best of me. I hope to take the knowledge I can gain from this forum and put it into practice, not just to get laid more often, but to make my social life more stimulating and interesting for me. I know that there is a hell of lot for me learn and improve on, and I hope to help out others like myself when I manage to better acclamate myself to socializing.

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: New to the game

    Don't talk about things that she may find boring, especially if you're just meeting her. Get to know her first by talking about funny topics about the news such as celebrities and etc.. You just need to practice approaching women and making the conversation FUN, it's better to gain experience then to read a bunch of stuff that gets you confused.. Hope this helps.

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    Default Re: New to the game

    Look for a girlfriend in the science or philosophy corner in the library. I know some intellectual girls who love to talk about this stuff...but not on first sight
    the police took my picture

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    TheUndertow is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New to the game

    Thanks for the advice! I just need to get over the fear of being called out on playing the game. Of her thinking in the back of her mind "there's no way this guys is actually interested in celebrities or the news, he's trying to pick me up."

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: New to the game

    Quote Originally Posted by TheUndertow View Post
    Thanks for the advice! I just need to get over the fear of being called out on playing the game. Of her thinking in the back of her mind "there's no way this guys is actually interested in celebrities or the news, he's trying to pick me up."
    Get that out of your mind, most of the time she's not even thinking about that.


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