Some background: First of all, she is very well educated and he is not. He apparently is unpleasant while she is the nicest person in the world, they have huge religious differences, shes christian (practicing), he is muslim.
This new girl came to work where I work. Absolutely gorgeous, funny, and most importantly playful. We both hit it off almost immediately, the sexual Tension and chemistry was there form the first 2 minutes...BUT she has a BF and she has been with him for a few years now (he lives at home with his parents and she lives at home with her parents) I feel like she at fitst has been testing me, asim me to do stuff for her, and as i declined or laughed it up, i felt she was intrigued more, hence why im not in the friend zone...i also almost constantly rip on her, and neg alot.
cut to the chase: at work, we act almost like a new couple, everything is great, but then after work she eventually goes to meet up with him... the way im taking it is that i am her work boyfriend, while he is her regular boyfriend for all the other times.
How do I change that? I was assuming that taking a few days off and having her work without me, would show her how much she hates working when im not there and maybe build my value this way. What do you think?