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    Default PUA Noob here

    Alright guys, first post so bare with me.

    Basically,

    (From what I've been told in the past, by more than one person)

    - I'm funny
    - I'm stylish
    - Great smile

    However what I can say is that I don't really have true friends and I don't interact very well with people, kind of socially awkward. I've found this to affect interviews I go for as I tend to become nervous and start looking all over the place.

    My goal is to become better with women and to have a better life and have better relations with people.

    Where do you guys think I should start, I'm a completely clean slate.

    I appreciate your input in advice.

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    Default Re: PUA Noob here

    STart by working on your confidence.
    Start small. Work out more, get a nice hair cut, buy a new outfit. (All these things will make you just feel overall better about your own self)

    Then, I would work with Approach Anxiety. This entails the anxiety one feels when approaching a girl/ target. However, I have found that when I ask my friends to overcome it, they become overall better talkers, and show a lot more confidence eventually. I always tell people just go up to a complete stranger, employee at a store, or whoever and strike up a conversation, compliment them on something, and expect nothing back.

    This truly does help you feel more confident in just being able to talk and keep calm and not nervous.

    I have gotten my friend to overcome his approach anxiety this way. I have myself had that same issue and it worked for me. This also lets you work on your people skills. You get to learn how to interact with a complete stranger, how to be quick with questions/remarks/statements, and it helps you build a poise in your own self.

    Just remember it isn't an overnight process. It takes time. But the only way to just become overall "better" (not the term I am looking for, but I hope you understand what I mean), is to just go out there and try. You can never know your fullest potential until you try.

    Also, piece of advice on job interviews... In your mind, tell yourself you are the best fit for this job. Go in thinking and feeling it. Talk like you know what you are talking about, and don't be nervous. They should feel like they want to hire you. Same as when talking with a girl, make her proof herself to you. Make her feel like she wants YOU.

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    Default Re: PUA Noob here

    Hey Kingo!

    I'll start off by letting you know if you're funny, than that's half the battle. One of the greatest keys to getting girls is making them laugh.

    If you notice that you talk to much when you get nervous, stop yourself. Learn to listen more. Girls love guys that can listen. Especially when they're talking about there favorite subject, themself.

    If you find yourself socially awkward study people who aren't. There body language, etc. Its usually a self confidence issue, learn to walk with your shoulders back and head up high. learn to look people in the eye when they talk to you.

    Hope this helps!


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