Hi. It's 4am from where I'm writing this, and I just got home from a club. I wanted to get with a pretty lose-looking but hot girl I saw and I failed. Miserably. I'm tired of this happening and I decided to be proactive and ask you experts for help to improve my almost nonexistent game.
I consider myself an extreme underachiever with girls. Modesty aside, I'm 100% sure I have the looks. I know for a fact that most girls that have met me find me attractive. I also think that I have the intangibles that girls want- at 21, I go to my country's top university and am a student leader. I'm also pretty athletic, competing regularly in BJJ. Also, I'm funny as fuck.
That said, I never had a girlfriend. EVER. The most success I had with girls are when they practically throw themselves at me. Those are the only times I muster enough courage to actually do something about it.
I hereby conclude that my dismal performance stems from my absolute fear of failure. I put myself in too high of a pedestal (obviously) and I'm afraid of risking failure in public. Because of this, I think I've become extremely self-conscious to the point that I'm afraid to approach a girl even though I'm pretty sure she at least finds me attractive.
NOTE: I'm extremely confident when talking to girls I don't like but I'm reduced to a stupid sack of boring when I try talking to girls I find attractive.
About the girl tonight: She was obviously drunk and was already freakin holding on to my back when as she tried navigating through the club and it STILL took my friend's introduction for me to even "formally meet" her. All I could muster was a handshake and a smile before her fat friend decided to take her away.
Someone PLEASE help and I will forever be grateful