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    Default still a virgin going to college

    So summer is about to end in 2 weeks and Im still a virgin going in to college. I got 2 problems I need to fix 1- Im only good at meeting girls through social circles related to me 2- my friends are terrible wingmen and do more damage than good cuz they're d1cks. How do I start here because I refuse to go to college a virgin. Im pretty decent looking if that helps above average if I were to rate myself but my social reputation in high school and awkwardness ruined everything. Also in social circle situations there is another side to me that if tapped honestly makes me have like unstoppable confidence but I would have to feel supported by everyone in the group and this is very rare with my reputation. Im not totally inexperienced ive made out with a lot of girls who are pretty hot but never hooked up. My confidence is dropping and I need a game plan to get out of this and Im willing to do anything (well almost) to get good.

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    One thing you can do is to read up on NLP. These books really help you and will enable you to access your "upstoppable confidence" with only depending on yourself. I use to have really low confidence, but after reading and following NLP methods i notice myself a lot more confident and walking with my head held high. with this gained confidence you will be able to approach women without being introduced or in your inner circle.
    Another thing i would suggest is to read "the game" or "Rules of the game"...these are also very helpful to becoming more outgoing and confident

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Don't rely on your mates. Don't rely on anyone. You can never know when someone will turn against you for their own benefit. Before going to parties make sure u masturbate so you are less horny. women sense your horny-ness and it is not good.

    Remain calm and just converse. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
    you will get there.

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Ive already read the game I know the theory but I just dont have any practice. What do you guys recommend for practice? I wanna become really good and show up my mates (they think I suck with girls) Im only 17 so I cant really do much of whats in the game and so on girls my age will think Im like gay or something if I go around using openers adults use in pua routines. Like where do I start my journey is what my main question is.

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Quote Originally Posted by AFC_andy View Post
    Ive already read the game I know the theory but I just dont have any practice. What do you guys recommend for practice? I wanna become really good and show up my mates (they think I suck with girls) Im only 17 so I cant really do much of whats in the game and so on girls my age will think Im like gay or something if I go around using openers adults use in pua routines. Like where do I start my journey is what my main question is.
    In The Game there are a couple of posts in Mystery's Lounge by a guy called "Adonis". You could try his way.

    ____________________ ____________________ _________________
    MSN GROUP: Mystery's Lounge
    SUBJECT: My Thousandth Approach
    AUTHOR: Adonis

    I'm going to get 1,000 approaches under my belt before the end of the month. My Approach Scheduling game is going to be supertight, and I will no longer be resentful of women and fear their power to make me feel inadequate.

    After getting fired from my job (too much time in the lounge, lol), I moved to L.A. last week to devote myself full-time to getting this game handled.

    I've always felt like the odd guy out here because I'm still a virgin and kind of a keyboard jockey, so I have locked off Saturday and decided to do a hundred approaches in a single day. I am going to start out on Melrose between La Brea and Fairfax in the afternoon. I figure I can do ten approaches per hour for five hours, yielding fifty approaches. (Does anyone know the name of the store where they sell the New Rock boots?) Afterward, I'm going to shower up, hit Sunset, and cover four bars (Dublin's, Miyagi's, the Saddle Ranch, the Standard), making twelve to fifteen approaches in each.

    A hundred approaches should be no problem. Even if I crash and burn every time, at least I will conquer my fear of rejection.

    -Adonis

    (That one may miss some pieces, I had it saved on my PC but pieces got mixed up so I had to fix it. - VirgJans12)

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    MSN GROUP: Mystery's Lounge
    SUBJECT: 1 25 Approaches!
    AUTHOR: Adonis

    Guys, this Saturday rocked. I got through 125 approaches. It was phenomenal.

    Before I left, I listened to Ross Jeffries s Unstoppable Confidence tapes. They really help. I pictured myself forty feet tall and made of diamond, so no one could hurt me.

    The opinion opener I used was the RSD classic, "Who lies more, men or women?" At first, HBs gave me funny looks, like I was taking a survey.

    It really started clicking for me at the Saddle Ranch. I think I opened every woman there. One HB8 offered me an e-mail address, but I pushed for a Number Close and lost it completely. Fuck! Lesson learned.

    Next month, I'm going to master phone game—a thousand phone calls, lol. If I keep this up, I should be getting laid by the end of the year.

    —Adonis

    (Again, missing pieces - VirgJans12)

    ____________________ ____________________ __________________

    (He also wrote this, but like I said, everything got mixed up so I don't know where it goes - VirgJans12)

    The other thing I learned is to challenge or intrigue HBs right away instead of trying to be logical or factual. I can stay in sets now for ten or fifteen minutes. I have been Stylemogging too, which was hard at first. But now I'm finding it easier to control a set, despite my size (I'm 5'4"). I am even isolating and doing the cube sometimes, and getting the odd phone number. I feel like I've become a new, more confident person, with no social fears. Before, I was so insecure and self-conscious that people avoided me; now when I walk down the street, I radiate. HBs can just sense it. I strongly recommend that everyone try this. It's worth it.

    -Adonis


    (This feels like it would suit your situation as well. I hope its helpful or at least inspiring - VirgJans12).

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Quote Originally Posted by VirgJans12 View Post
    In The Game there are a couple of posts in Mystery's Lounge by a guy called "Adonis". You could try his way.

    ____________________ ____________________ _________________
    MSN GROUP: Mystery's Lounge
    SUBJECT: My Thousandth Approach
    AUTHOR: Adonis

    I'm going to get 1,000 approaches under my belt before the end of the month. My Approach Scheduling game is going to be supertight, and I will no longer be resentful of women and fear their power to make me feel inadequate.

    After getting fired from my job (too much time in the lounge, lol), I moved to L.A. last week to devote myself full-time to getting this game handled.

    I've always felt like the odd guy out here because I'm still a virgin and kind of a keyboard jockey, so I have locked off Saturday and decided to do a hundred approaches in a single day. I am going to start out on Melrose between La Brea and Fairfax in the afternoon. I figure I can do ten approaches per hour for five hours, yielding fifty approaches. (Does anyone know the name of the store where they sell the New Rock boots?) Afterward, I'm going to shower up, hit Sunset, and cover four bars (Dublin's, Miyagi's, the Saddle Ranch, the Standard), making twelve to fifteen approaches in each.

    A hundred approaches should be no problem. Even if I crash and burn every time, at least I will conquer my fear of rejection.

    -Adonis

    (That one may miss some pieces, I had it saved on my PC but pieces got mixed up so I had to fix it. - VirgJans12)

    ____________________ ____________________ __________________


    MSN GROUP: Mystery's Lounge
    SUBJECT: 1 25 Approaches!
    AUTHOR: Adonis

    Guys, this Saturday rocked. I got through 125 approaches. It was phenomenal.

    Before I left, I listened to Ross Jeffries s Unstoppable Confidence tapes. They really help. I pictured myself forty feet tall and made of diamond, so no one could hurt me.

    The opinion opener I used was the RSD classic, "Who lies more, men or women?" At first, HBs gave me funny looks, like I was taking a survey.

    It really started clicking for me at the Saddle Ranch. I think I opened every woman there. One HB8 offered me an e-mail address, but I pushed for a Number Close and lost it completely. fark! Lesson learned.

    Next month, I'm going to master phone game—a thousand phone calls, lol. If I keep this up, I should be getting laid by the end of the year.

    —Adonis

    (Again, missing pieces - VirgJans12)

    ____________________ ____________________ __________________

    (He also wrote this, but like I said, everything got mixed up so I don't know where it goes - VirgJans12)

    The other thing I learned is to challenge or intrigue HBs right away instead of trying to be logical or factual. I can stay in sets now for ten or fifteen minutes. I have been Stylemogging too, which was hard at first. But now I'm finding it easier to control a set, despite my size (I'm 5'4"). I am even isolating and doing the cube sometimes, and getting the odd phone number. I feel like I've become a new, more confident person, with no social fears. Before, I was so insecure and self-conscious that people avoided me; now when I walk down the street, I radiate. HBs can just sense it. I strongly recommend that everyone try this. It's worth it.

    -Adonis


    (This feels like it would suit your situation as well. I hope its helpful or at least inspiring - VirgJans12).

    Wow VirgJans, those quotes are awesome, this guy Adonis sounds like someone on the track to the big times, do you happen to know what became of him?
    Be LOUD as hell! Who gives a damn if ppl staare?

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Your "dick" mates can work in your favour, as girls see you in contrast to them. I often pull the most when I'm with my mates who are really shy and lack confidence, because I come across as being way more alpha.

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    I don't think your AFC mates will help even it you are the Alpha guy there It just makes you the king of the losers. The best way is to go and approach alone and then start getting a good wing man to help

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Yo any of you guys got any advice for whether I should invite these dick friends to my kegger Im having tomorrow? They might lower my value so Im thinking no but maybe I can win them over with my new identity?

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    Default Re: still a virgin going to college

    Work on the law of statistics... Talk to as many girls as possible, there's always a percentage that you'll do fine with. You said that you've read the game so you have in your head what to say. This method, i found, was good practice... If you get shot down then shrug your shoulders, assess where you went wrong but don't let it bother you and move on to the next set.
    Good luck mate


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