I've Lost my Game

Hello all,

It's tough to begin anywhere. I'm in my early twenties and I've basically lost my game. I used to talk to everyone, and I had moderate success with women, although now I've just gotten to a level where I won't even initiate a conversation with another male, nevermind a female, unless there's a reason or a premise for it. People used to like me, and girls found me interesting, although after a few years of Uni and full time work I've lost my sociability entirely. I rarely go out anymore, and I've gone from optimistic, extroverted and risk taking to introverted, pessimistic (or realistic), and withdrawn. This summer I realized that, much like anything else in life, unless I attempt to change this myself it won't change for me. I'm really good with people and decided that the fact that I'm not Attracting Women is what is creating this lack of sociability and lack of confidence. I purchased a PUA book which I'm halfway through, and I definitely can see the light at the end of the tunnel, although there's something about me that just doesn't care. I've come here to regain my game back and become the man I once was, or better yet, an even better man than that.

If there are any directions that you'd like to point me in or threads you'd like me to read please post them here, as I'm in dire need of confidence boosters to get my game back.

the lost one

well it seems youre current lifestyle has inadvertently changed your habits, change your habits once more for the social side, if you can by baby steps.