Gambit needs some serious help getting into the game

i need a transformation ASAP, main problem right now is Approach Anxiety, i feel i have all the material, but i go blank when the moment presents itself and end up kickng myself afterwards. help!!!!

its just a confidense issue, dont worry about it my friend. heres a nice exerices to do
when you are out in town on a day time, everytime you make eye contact, say Hey
morning
afternoon
etc

if you dont make eye contract much, say it to passers by, attractive girls unattractive ones
nice and easy.

also
when you go out,(before you leave) talk with your friends get all talkie, so your not starting from scratch on communication.

and remember, no matter what hap pens, its just experince to you. women get hit on alot, unless you did something spectacular like hit them, they wont even remember you failed, so its not like they';ll laugh at you. and mroe importantly, its their loss

best of luck

I was the same way but I've learned to enjoy communicating and do it all the time. And now I like that feeling of anxiety and being uncomfortable because I just go do it and feel great after for taking that step and doing it. All it is, is being calm/confident, its just having that 'swagger'

Another good idea is to get a playlist of 5 songs that you see the PUA in you jamming out to. Something high energy, high tempo, positive lyrics. A personal favorite of mine, 'Why Should I Worry' from ... well it's a good song to jam to. Pick out a few songs and listen to them all while practicing your body language in a mirror. It can really help your self-visualization in the field.

Bro, just take a baby step at a time, Rome isn't built in a day! I think your fear of failure creeped into you...practise your game with less attractive women or Hired Guns. The most important thing is to get comfortable with presence of women. Once you are comfortable, the rest of your game will follow! Cheers!