Time to get serious!

Hey, I've known about the PUA community since reading the Game at the beginning of the year, but haven't really been able to commit to improving mine. Been busy with finishing my degree and all that.

Now my next step in life is getting better with women and also finding a job. I believe that both these done together will be an advantage because being able to hold a better conversation with women, will hopefully help me in interviews and such.

So to properly introduce myself, I have Approach Anxiety, can't hold a conversation and also don't know when it's the right time to go for the kiss. While I've been able to do all three on some occasions when really drunk, I think about all the negatives when quite sober.

Are their any techniques that would suit me better than others or should I just combine routines of of different things?

Also, I was really drunk last Friday night when a girl who used to go to school with my younger brother approached me. All I remember about it is, she asked if I was his brother and then noticing her looking at me quite a few times after while I was on the dance floor. I don't know if any more was said in the conversation, but the next day she added me on facebook. I accepted, but she hasn't said anything to me since then, and I don't if I should ask her something. And I wouldn't know what to say if asking her something was the right thing to do.

Anyway, sorry for the long post and hope someone can give me any tips. Thanks