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    Exclamation College day game failing miserably... help

    Hey guys I just joined this community bout a week ago and I've been practicing "gaming" about 2 years now. Im a senior in college and I NEED to get this part of my life handled before I graduate. Ive read bits n pieces of The Game and Rules of the Game. Ive read conquer your campus by Mark Redman as well as the first half of Bang by Roosh. I guess Im trying to get a well rounded perspective. And I have approached random girls on campus as well as at parties, get-togethers, etc. In a few cases. got a few numbers. But I realize the girls RARELY if ever respond to my phone calls.

    Today during my lunch break, I decided to go and eat outside since it was nice and sunny. I sit down in the student UU (outdoors) and see a lone girl sitting by herself. Shes bout a 5/6 but I figure it can't hurt to practice so I decide to open to her. I sit down bout 7ft from her and notice shes reading a text book. I start eating and try to absorb some of the nice sun and then I casually ask her what subject shes studying. She claims physics and I ask what major she is. She's an IT major. I go ahead and tell her that my major is Industrial Engineering which is similar to hers. I ask which physics course shes in and then tell her the series that we have to take. I then conclude that they must be the same classes but with just the course numbers switched around. (Lame I know but just tryin to break the ice). She goes back to reading and doesn't seem too interested.

    I take out my phone to text a friend about a club social we're supposed to organize. He txts back asking for ideas for a good 1st social between a sales club and a Society of Women Engineers club. What better way than to get an opinion from a girl? I turn to the girl next to me and describe her my situation and ask for any suggestions. I mention a bbq but ask for any other good ideas. She agrees w/ bbq and then asks how many people are showing are showing up. I tell her about 30 and she says bbq is fine. The next thing is the thing that ruined it. She noticed one of her friends and called her over. As soon as she sat down, she turned her back to me as thought trying to ignore me. Her body language literally cried " come talk to me , theres this wierd guy asking me questions". I decided nothings gonna happen so I text my friend and get up to leave. I tell her thanks for the input and head out to my next class.

    This shit happens ALL THE TIME. I get a weird vibe every time I do this and it feels like Im worsening my game rather than improving it. So my question is: Does all this PUA stuff really help in the end? Whats the word on cold approaching girls on campus? (Im an engineer so not very many HBs in my classes and I want to meet people outside my major. Im not going greek either. Its too expensive and Ive tried it. Not for me.) I definitely dont want to become labeled as "that guy" on campus but its hard to meet new people without any GE courses that everyone has to take. I don't need to be a PUA banging women 24/7. I just want to have enough game to approach a girl I find attractive and build attraction. I feel like my biggest struggle is building an emotional connection with girls. Any advice would be great.

    -Struggling student lacking college game

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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    That was horrible,at least you have the courage to talk to females, kudos to you.Im in college also first year, second semester and Ive already been with 3 chicks on campus.Dude they dont want to talk about majors and classes, unless your actually in one of her classes.opinion openers and telling stories do not work as well unless they are extremely attracted.What works for me and a couple of students I teach is tease and banter or push and pull.....freaking amazing, Girls dont respond to your calls because they think your not fun,theyre not attracted to you or they dont remember you at all.
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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    two words-party liason. Watch the movie Van Wilder. Even if your butt ugly if your a party organizer girls will sleep with you through social proof.

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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    @ VirusCast: I see your point and I couldnt agree more. But did ya mean my approach was horrible or the girl's behavior was horrible? Any examples of celebrities or resources that can help with this tug/pull/bantering? I've read about it but don't quite get it yet. I learn best by watching others. Any real life examples would help. Thanks

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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    your approach was ok but you lack material which lead to the girl's horrible behavior,your material determines if the girl flirts or not, you didnt give them the opportunity to flirt with you cause your main focus was on school and academics.If you want to open with a cheesy overused line like "what your major" you need to transition quickly for example
    Me :whats your major?
    her:Accounting
    Meassionate about numbers I respect that,so tell me 3 things that would make me want to get to know you more
    Her: well Im on the volleyball team,Im very flexible and I like to party
    Me: OH! I absolutely love flexible girls(pull),I just hope that your not the kind that sucks on her own toes in her spare time(push)
    That was an actual conversation I had with this girl in the elevator on campus.Try researching Mystery pua he has a lot of push and pull material for example when a girl comes up to hug him he pushes them off and say " ok thats enough, this sh1t aint free"
    "Give her the gift of missing you" david d

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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    Where's the high energy son??? You've done the hard part in approaching, now you just have to game her. Viruscat is right, the conversation was too stale to get her interested. When she said she's studying IT I would have made a tease about it, like her being obsessed with videogames or something, but make sure it's done right with a big smile and good fun energy. Play around that subject for a while and Number Close with some cheesy joke like "if I need someone to fix my printer can i call you?" although your interaction up to this point should leave no doubt that you actually want to go out with her. Why not also give yourself a time constraint early on so she doesn't worry that you'll be hanging around her for ages.

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    Default Re: College day game failing miserably... help

    Thanks guys. The examples help a ton. Much appreciated


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