Hey guys I just joined this community bout a week ago and I've been practicing "gaming" about 2 years now. Im a senior in college and I NEED to get this part of my life handled before I graduate. Ive read bits n pieces of The Game and Rules of the Game. Ive read conquer your campus by Mark Redman as well as the first half of Bang by Roosh. I guess Im trying to get a well rounded perspective. And I have approached random girls on campus as well as at parties, get-togethers, etc. In a few cases. got a few numbers. But I realize the girls RARELY if ever respond to my phone calls.
Today during my lunch break, I decided to go and eat outside since it was nice and sunny. I sit down in the student UU (outdoors) and see a lone girl sitting by herself. Shes bout a 5/6 but I figure it can't hurt to practice so I decide to open to her. I sit down bout 7ft from her and notice shes reading a text book. I start eating and try to absorb some of the nice sun and then I casually ask her what subject shes studying. She claims physics and I ask what major she is. She's an IT major. I go ahead and tell her that my major is Industrial Engineering which is similar to hers. I ask which physics course shes in and then tell her the series that we have to take. I then conclude that they must be the same classes but with just the course numbers switched around. (Lame I know but just tryin to break the ice). She goes back to reading and doesn't seem too interested.
I take out my phone to text a friend about a club social we're supposed to organize. He txts back asking for ideas for a good 1st social between a sales club and a Society of Women Engineers club. What better way than to get an opinion from a girl? I turn to the girl next to me and describe her my situation and ask for any suggestions. I mention a bbq but ask for any other good ideas. She agrees w/ bbq and then asks how many people are showing are showing up. I tell her about 30 and she says bbq is fine. The next thing is the thing that ruined it. She noticed one of her friends and called her over. As soon as she sat down, she turned her back to me as thought trying to ignore me. Her body language literally cried " come talk to me , theres this wierd guy asking me questions". I decided nothings gonna happen so I text my friend and get up to leave. I tell her thanks for the input and head out to my next class.
This shit happens ALL THE TIME. I get a weird vibe every time I do this and it feels like Im worsening my game rather than improving it. So my question is: Does all this PUA stuff really help in the end? Whats the word on cold approaching girls on campus? (Im an engineer so not very many HBs in my classes and I want to meet people outside my major. Im not going greek either. Its too expensive and Ive tried it. Not for me.) I definitely dont want to become labeled as "that guy" on campus but its hard to meet new people without any GE courses that everyone has to take. I don't need to be a PUA banging women 24/7. I just want to have enough game to approach a girl I find attractive and build attraction. I feel like my biggest struggle is building an emotional connection with girls. Any advice would be great.
-Struggling student lacking college game