Hello to other PUAs - I am just out of a relationship.

Hello everyone
i just got out of a four year relationship because things were just not working out i actually met that girl because she was interested in me and well at the time i was atracted to her, but after 3 years i had enough and saw that our relationship was not gonna go well and as you can see it did not.

after seeing the movie Hitch i always wanted to be like him. just being able to talk to girls and close. everytime i saw that movie i would wonder how can i be like him; to approach this beautiful woman and have her be attracted to me. as mentioned above i was in a relationship and 2 months before we split i found about this secret society, which is PUA. i was actually looking up ways in how to talk to girls and i came across this PUA system, so i did more research on it and this was basically what i needed to learn. everything was there from the aproach to the close.

i am shy when talking to new peopole it's not just girls. i am the type of guy that if i don't see any interest and even some times even if i see some interest i will not go in to the set because i have Approach Anxiety and well i don't know what to say once i approach the set. this is why i am doing this. i want to get rid of my approach anxiety. i want to be able to go up to a woman that i find attractive and start a conversation. i want to have a say in who i want to date.

Welcome to the community Brown. I also used to struggle a lot with Approach Anxiety. I still sometimes get the flutter in my stomach, but it is more of an adrenaline rush for me to go up to girls.

I used to go door to door for 3 years, and that really helped me out. Then I got into PUA stuff and it has helped me with approaching girls specifically. Now I do it for fun.

Good luck with your new journey. Have you read any books written by renown mpua's yet? I suggest it, you will learn a great deal that way. You just have to make sure you start putting the techniques you learn into practice. The field is the only place that one can truly improve.

Also, the best Mindset to have is "This is your reality, others are just guests in it that are looking for YOUR approval."

-Tropics

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yhea i have read some PUA books and have seen some in field videos of pua's doing thier thing, and i have actually gone out and tried some things, but lately i have been hestitating in going out to sarge