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Old 11-02-2011, 08:23 AM
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Hey,

I've been trying to pick up a girl in my building for the past couple of weeks. Things have been going good she's comfortable being around me, there's lots of Kino and she has shown a lot of interest in me. The issue is that she has a close friend that is always around. Whenever we go out this guy ends up tagging along and at the end of the night he doesn't leave. I don't see him as a threat, but he is a massive cockblock. Has anyone got any suggestions as to how I can get her away from this guy for a while? I do have a date set up with her next week (Hopefully he doesn't tag along), but I am thinking just in general when he's around how can I get her away from him?


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Old 11-02-2011, 09:14 AM
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Hey,

I've been trying to pick up a girl in my building for the past couple of weeks. Things have been going good she's comfortable being around me, there's lots of Kino and she has shown a lot of interest in me. The issue is that she has a close friend that is always around. Whenever we go out this guy ends up tagging along and at the end of the night he doesn't leave. I don't see him as a threat, but he is a massive cockblock. Has anyone got any suggestions as to how I can get her away from this guy for a while? I do have a date set up with her next week (Hopefully he doesn't tag along), but I am thinking just in general when he's around how can I get her away from him?
Man! That is annoying. Do you think that he likes her, but the feelings aren't mutual? I would just play it cool, and then when you and the girl are hanging out some time just suggest that you guys hang out alone some time.

Another thing you could do is get 2 tickets to an event and not tell the guy. Invite her to go and tell her you have an extra ticket. That way he literally can't come along. Ha!

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I was in a similar situation about a year ago. While on vacation, in a club at a mountain resort, I hooked up with a HB9 brunette. After a few push-pull routines, she was all over me, she even went as far as "marking her territory", placing her pearl necklace on my jacket. But she had a guy friend who clearly had a desperate crush on her and was a drag-along, basically.

Anyway, she invited me over to her hotel room. All's well, all alone, the two of us, same night lay's looking good. Except that suddenly the guy just showed up, not knocking or anything. Just stormed in and said "Let's have some fun". While I had a good come-back, I played the "hard-to-get" guy, so it was obvious, but just resorted in saying that we'll come downstairs in a few minutes. He said "OK, I can wait here". Long story short, it went back and forth between us shoo-ing him out of the room and him just wanting to stay.

Anyway, I ended up sleeping at her place. After the party downstairs ended and me and the HB went upstairs, he still came to her room and wanted to show her something off youtube. Turns out it's an entire movie. I ended up falling asleep.

But she made up for it in the morning As in "7 AM" morning.

The thing with telling the guy subtly to "leave us alone" didn't work. While on paper it would've been a great idea to tell him myself to get the fark out in a gentle way, either he would've become aggressive ( which actually did happened every time I opened my mouth, but didn't bother to answer back ).

So basically, you can't win with the guy, you just have to out-smart him. Ideally, tell her place some "red herrings" on her tracks ( like "It's girls night out" stuff or whatever ) and then the two of you go out and have fun.


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