So I've been okay with women for the last little bit, but I wanna step up my game. I find I usually stray from the whole PUA routine because it usually blows up in my face. But I hadn't gotten laid in a little while so I figured I'd at lease use some of the tips on meeting women in the daytime.
I was being quite a pussy, I'll admit it. I saw girl after girl, but I didn't want to say anything because I handle rejection poorly. However, I am in university, so there is a surplus of girls walking around my campus just waiting to be talked to.
So today, I saw 3 girls walking towards the library (It's exam season, I know I picked a poor time), so I said, fark it, the worst I'll get out of this is some experience. I used this trick I learned from Alex Coulson. I told myself I would only walk passed them, then when I finally got up to them I would open my mouth and say whatever came out.
So I used the "drugdealer" opener and it went a little something like this;
"Hey, can I get your guys opinion on something?"
"Do I look like a drugdealer to you?"
(I totally don't look like a drugdealer by the way)
"Yeah, sometimes people come up to me on my floor and ask if I'm the guy that sells drugs"
(The girls were flabbergasted that I would even ask this)
"Yeah you don't"
"I didn't think so"
There was very little small talk after that, to be honest I didn't know what I was doing with the routine, and this is the first time I've ever sarged during the day (or at all really), let alone with a three set. One of the girls looked a little flustered, and couldn't stop giggling. The other one I could tell just wanted to study for this psych exam that was later on. Either way I had no idea what I was doing to continue the conversation, I chose a pretty bad time to pick up girls in the school year and I probably looked like an idiot.
That being said I gained some confidence to just go up to girls and say whatever comes to mind, which is half of the first battle. I could use some help though, and clearly more practice (probably with only 1 girl for now) to get better.
Any advice or encouragement will go greatly appreciated,
Mattdaddy (A nick I got from girls! I do okay with girls I might add, but there's always much room for improvement)