Another 28 year old AFC here looking for guidance. Just thought I'd put myself out there before I start lurking, but I'll eventually start posting at some point as I need some serious help. I am so sick of watching my friend get all these girls and watching all these girls want him, and I get to nobody. He tells me I need to work on my "game" and "turn up my swag" whatever that means and however you do that. Hopefully I can learn here.