I'm a 21 year old guy who's always been really shy. I have issues with self esteem and whatnot but I've been working on them. I started going out and I've been getting mixed results. The problem is that there's so much material out there that I don't know where to look or what to read as a beginner. I've read The Game, I've been skimming some Vin Dicarlo but I'm just not sure if it's what I should be looking at or not? I know there are different methods but what is the most beginner friendly way of starting off?