Time to change

Hi. I'm WorkingClassVillain and I joined puaforums because I have no skill with women and I want to get my s**t together.
I am a 23 year old college student from Providence RI and I'm a virgin. I'm short (5'5") and have started to lose my hair (i always buzz it off anyway so it's nbd) I have a crappy job and still live with my parents (until i get a better job). I've lost 60 lbs since april so i'm working on my physical appearance and i figure i need to start working on my social skills too. I'm tired of not having any skill interacting with women and I'm determined to succeed but have no idea where to start.

Dude, i wish you the best of luck in everything.

Choosing to become a better man is something we all need to do. It's a continual progression into adulthood - fatherhood and so on.

Beginning on your inner game is key. Losing your hair at 23? I went grey at 24 :-)

You shaved it off and its NBD? Exactly the correct attitude to have.

Physical appearance - When you look sharp you feel sharp.

Slowly start practising canned material on women that you find on this forum and others.

Just jump right into it - you wont die, the worst that can happen is you get blown out - then you move on and try it again.

You will not find a technique that will change you.
By using canned material you will begin to learn more about yourself and how YOU interact with women.

Your personality will start to morph as continuous practice shapes your next move.

Good Luck, practice, keep training your mind and body and keep us updated and what you have tried and what you have learnt

Aries

Thanks for the advice! I'm a bit introverted any advice on how to overcome that?

Crawl out of your shell by going places and hanging out with other people. Meet up with an old friend, chat up complete strangers in the streets and keep telling yourself you're becoming a more social person. Try to force yourself into social situations continuously. If you do so all the time - at home, on the bus, in the street, in school, at work - you will get used to it and socializing will become something you do automatically.

Here are two great topics to start working on your inner game.

The Great Alpha Male Thread
Become The Alpha Male Now

My biggest mental setback is that I'm broke. I'm 23, still live with my parents, and can barely afford gas every week let alone travel and do awesome stuff.