[Natural1984]

What's up guys?! Glad I found this forum, been looking to communicate with others about picking up girls. Had a good amount of women in my time (around 30) but it always has seemed like "luck" at a bar or a club. Never really approached picking up girls systematically, but that's why I'm here. Look forward to getting some pointers.

[Bradders]

Well natural, fisrtly welcome my friend!
but i wouldnt say it was "luck" that got those women into bed, but simply you didnt notice what you were doing! and prehaps it was to do with the women too, collage girls newly away from home and in a secure environment will likly be more open with their sexual desires.

but stress not! there will be people on here that will give you tips and advice, i'll certenly do what i can, though my fisrt tip would be

dont think of it as a systematic thing - the idea of ascipt of tick boxes to do will stop you thinking, develop your own style and your own way of thinking, when i started out by all means it helps! and will work too! but people talk, reputations get started, it will be better for you simply to work out your way of doing things and focus on that. is it humour? Mystery? inflapable charm? rebelious? carefree? responible? trust me there is alot to be and alot of women who only want certain aspects of those niché so dont let it get to you.

Be eager to learn - best way to do this, is to learn everything and develop your own style, by all means learn mystery method, Ross jefferies method, styles method etc etc but dont just follow it as law expecting it to work every time. its important to find out WHY the things that are told work, work. otherwise when it comes to you trying to figure out what went wrong and how to make it better, dont back yourself into a corner thinking things like"how did it fail, i must have resited the play wrong" rather then"how did i fail? maybe i came on toos trong or this perticular Opener didnt work out well"

DOnt get cocky - nothing wrong with confidense, and nothing wrong with being proud of you, but the PUA isnt a glorified bed post for the notches you have made. its a place to share ideas and tips you've found to stop other people making the same mistakes.there can be a million openers but not all of them will work, or maybe they will but only to certain people. if 100 people all take 1 opener each and tell teh other 100 how it went, thingss get done alot faster, and this wont happen if you've made enemys becasue you claim to be better thena nother(just using you as an example im sure your nothing like that)

have fun - dont let people here, on a night out or other PUA's or even naturals get you down, your doing htis for yourself no one else. dont be afraid to be rejected becasue in the end your just learning and makng friends.

lastly - know why your doing it - the reasons for getting into ' The Game ' and the reasons you stay in are completely differnt. you may hate being alone or want attention, or need power or even just want to understand social situations better but that doesnt mean once your getting involved you will want those same reasons, maybe its becasue you want to teach other people or enjoy learning, or want to have sex as muchas possible. point is you have to know why your doing it so your not aimlessly wandering around. work to an aim and master it.

do let me know how you get on, best of luck!

[Natural1984]

Preciate the advice Bradders! And I will definitely write down my experiences and ideas that I get from them.