Whats up from SoCal,
Well I joined up, so I guess should post something right? I began this journey into the art of pick up about six months ago. I've always had a fair amount of confidence throughout my years and had my fair share of girl friends. Mostly those relationships happened purely out of circumstance, as we met within the same socal circles.
I'm sure alot of you can relate to this, but as I got older, graduated college and started my career. My free time, sex life has taken a bit of a back seat in my life and when I did get the time. I was looking to go out and have a good time with my buds. We do the usual stuff, hit up night clubs, bars, restaurants or whatever else we decided to do that night haha. My friends and I's group dynamic is kind of a "cocky funny" vibe for the most part and we have fun with the girls that come around, for example (waitresses, bar tenders or girls in the club just looking for free drinks)
So why am I telling you all this? Well most of my close friends (except one) are either married or in a serious relationship. This had been getting to me over the last year, so I decided I wanted to do something about it. I told myself (I'm a fairly good looking guy, had a good amount of girls in the past... why am I not trying to meet girls?) So randomly and just happened to be good timing, a buddy recommended this book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss I read it and at first I honestly didn't know how I felt about it. My thoughts where (Interesting, but really!? pick up artists... hmm.
Then after reading it, I began to start seeing things I never saw before. How girls reacted to things, their body language and how they behaved around certain guys. I literally started seeing and hearing things that were a lot like the situations and events I had read about in "The Game". I started really thinking about what I was seeing... could this be the social dynamics I was reading about??? So I decided, if there was one thing I could get behind about the art of pick up, was the idea of why not try to better myself, why not be the best self that I can be. I don't seem to be doing very well how I am now...
So in this begins my journey, I was intrigued with these new social responses I was seeing from women. So I decided I would start learning about this pick up stuff, and so I did. I started searching youtube, google for everything I could find on pick up. I read double your dating, stuff on body language watched a bunch of seminars from various MPUA's and a ton of other stuff. It wasn't one day at a club in hollywood, I decided to try the "Cube Routine" out on this girl that was hanging out with us. I was amazed at the impact this made on her! and I was just testing it out for shits and giggles! The girl wouldn't leave my side all night, made out with her and called it a night after she practically threw her number at me. I was hooked ever sense. I couldn't believe how just being confident, acting like you can give every girl what she is looking for with a few good routines thrown in for good measure could be so powerful! and just plain FUN!
There is still a lot I can learn, hence signing up here. I know this was long but I figured, if I'm going to hang out here and learn from everyone. Then people should know where I'm going from.
Looking forward to learning with you guys.