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Unread 07-21-2012, 02:59 AM
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Hey puas,

I'm going to college in riverside (boring and hot) so I can't really meet girls in decent bars and clubs as those are all +1hours away. I do want to meet girls close-by however, so I started up a PoF account. My profile is: diMike

Would be great if you can let me know how it is please and what I can do to improve my odds.

Thanks,
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Unread 07-21-2012, 10:07 PM
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My "recon profile" just checked you out.
Your PHOTOS are good. They show you being active, giving a little glimpse into your personality & lifestyle.

The actual written profile part???
Not so much.

Do yourself a favor & create a 2nd (fake) account & look up other guys' profiles... just so you can see what THEY all say.
Your "written" profile blends in with the rest of the 500,000 in your area.
You need to be creative & stand out from the pack.

Create some excitement & mystery to make women want to know more.

(BTW, my recon profile is "SweetKatrina" so when you see her as a visitor, you'll know it was me.)

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I agree with tmalonetn. Your about me could use some changes. Honestly mine doesn't even say anything much about me. It just expresses my sense of humor. I borrowed things from a post awhile back and changed it dramatically. Cut it short and took out alot of cursing. So here it is....

Hola kimosabe!! (backwards I know)

A bit about me:

I'm pretty much down for anything. If you want to watch some crappy movies, trip each other dancing, rob a bank, run for president, re-invent the screen door, push an old person, or I could just NOT talk to you at all. It's completely UP TO YOU!! (sarcasm ....gotta love it)

I'm not into arguing though. If you try to argue with me I'll just be like "Ah sh-t. She's trying to argue with me. I better say yes to everything and make her happy." Then I'll tell you to "shut up" and kiss you. ON THE MOUTH!! YEAAAAA (lil jon reference)

Am I interested in hanging out with you? You bet my goofy ass I am. The only thing I require is honesty and a fun outlook. Anything else is considered a bonus. I'm taking dating to the next level. I'll give you Facebook links, background checks, credit reports, phone numbers, resumes, references, awards, sexual history, and a list of the top 5 women I'd like to bang before I die. Do you want to meet someone who consistently blows your mind with awesomeness!! Then hit me up.

It's just to put a smile on there face. And it conveys my sense of humor without actually saying "I have a great sense of humor." Everyone says that. I haven't met anyone that would actually say otherwise. So I would avoid "listing your traits" as every guy does that. Instead convey something with either a story or humor.


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^ batman ^ - nice!!

Since we're all in the sharing mood, here's my exact Match.com profile- It's quirky, crazy, goofy, silly..... etc.
All the ingredients to grab a girl's attention when she clicks to read it.

I've gotten more emails & compliments than I can possibly keep up with because of this. (Although, I DO seem to find time to email the really hot ones somehow.. )

Anyway, here's my profile: Just to give you idea of doing something completely different & unique:


UPDATE...
Y'all seem to be entertained/intrigued by my "last read" comment.... Because, I'm being bombarded with messages about it.
LOL!
That's totally cool with me by the way... but it's taking me a bit longer to read and reply.
So, please bear with me and hang in there! I'll write back ASAP.

(ALSO- For all you TWILIGHT fans, I'm "Team Edward". But, if you're team Jacob, I suppose we can still be friends... However; we all know who ends up with Bella.... just sayin')

Now then.... Continuing with my profile.


Don't JUST "read it".....

SING IT!!!
-To the tune of: the theme song from Friends.
Here we go....

So here you are online, looking every day
You're searching for a man who's not just good, he's great
It's like you always find the same old schmucks;
and the pictures of them with their shirts off, or dead fish and their trucks..
But:
Here's good news for you
(I'm different from them all)
Here's good news for you
(I won't drive you up a wall)
Here's good news for you
(Cause I'm searching for you too)

By the way, I cannot be held responsible if this song gets stuck in your head and you can't quit singing it. It was your decision to click on my profile, so you have no one to blame but yourself.


A little more about me:
Full of zest & creative ideas, I tend to push the boundaries when it comes to having fun.
I'm somewhat of a "foodie" & enjoy exploring new places for my favorite things.

I crave adventure, fun, and excitement...
Being bold and daring, I don't shy away from unique experiences. Spontaneity is a regular part of my life.
If I see something I want, I'm not afraid go after it, right then and there.

Don't take me too seriously when we're out and about; I'm always making jokes have a sarcastic / flirty nature.
That said, you should know that if I can push your buttons and give you a hard time, you can rest assured I'll do it!


Now then, this is where YOU come in, and we begin the "interactive" portion of the program.

I'm interested in meeting friendly, polite, considerate, compassionate people.
Someone who isn't timid or clams up in a social setting, but still knows how to act in public, when letting loose and having a good time.
(It would behoove you to be able to take a joke, as well as dish one out.)

If you're adventurous when it comes to food, we can be "besties" and roam the area for the latest and greatest places to eat, drink and be merry!
Or..... we can find some other random activity and become our own modern-day version of "Bonnie Clyde".

Just imagine the limitless possibilities...

I obviously can't read EVERY profile on this site... and I know there are some AMAZING women that I'll never meet, unless they lose the shyness routine; and just send me an email of some sort....

Now the ball is in your court. (What'cha gonna do with it?)

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Dimike, honestly i think your profile text needs a lot of work too. The pictures are pretty good though. A lot of the stuff you say on it blends in with all the other guys text, which wont help.
You should watch this youtube video on online dating by Bravo its great. I cant post it because of the forums policy but its called cracking the code to online game, Bravo pua.

The more up yourself you sound - he says - the better luck you'll have.


 
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Thanks guys, I'll work on the profile text when I get a chance this weekend. Btw, I was wondering what will get girls to actually click on my profile as I'm not seeing a lot of visitors.


 
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I've had success by using a clear/in focus face pic where I'm smiling... and a headline that gets attention.

You want that to stand out too! Usually something silly works well.

I changed my headline at least once a week, just to make sure there was something new.

But a couple of the headlines I've used before, that got women to click my profile were the ones that really had nothing to do with me or the profile.
Basically just some random attention getting line.

Here's a couple examples I've used, just to make them think to themselves "What is that all about? I just have to check". (lol!)

"Cheese & Crackers"
"I am NOT a Ninja, I swear!"
"Yeah, it's ok.. you can click this one. :-)"


Again, they had nothing to do with my actual profile, but they stood out from the rest of the headlines & got their attention.

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Okay, so I've since updated everything after watching Bravo.

Anything that I'm missing or could be made better?
Thanks,


 
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This is brilliant. I'm doing this exact same thing, except to the tune of Call Me Maybe.



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^ batman ^ - nice!!

Since we're all in the sharing mood, here's my exact Match.com profile- It's quirky, crazy, goofy, silly..... etc.
All the ingredients to grab a girl's attention when she clicks to read it.

I've gotten more emails & compliments than I can possibly keep up with because of this. (Although, I DO seem to find time to email the really hot ones somehow.. )

Anyway, here's my profile: Just to give you idea of doing something completely different & unique:


UPDATE...
Y'all seem to be entertained/intrigued by my "last read" comment.... Because, I'm being bombarded with messages about it.
LOL!
That's totally cool with me by the way... but it's taking me a bit longer to read and reply.
So, please bear with me and hang in there! I'll write back ASAP.

(ALSO- For all you TWILIGHT fans, I'm "Team Edward". But, if you're team Jacob, I suppose we can still be friends... However; we all know who ends up with Bella.... just sayin')

Now then.... Continuing with my profile.


Don't JUST "read it".....

SING IT!!!
-To the tune of: the theme song from Friends.
Here we go....

So here you are online, looking every day
You're searching for a man who's not just good, he's great
It's like you always find the same old schmucks;
and the pictures of them with their shirts off, or dead fish and their trucks..
But:
Here's good news for you
(I'm different from them all)
Here's good news for you
(I won't drive you up a wall)
Here's good news for you
(Cause I'm searching for you too)

By the way, I cannot be held responsible if this song gets stuck in your head and you can't quit singing it. It was your decision to click on my profile, so you have no one to blame but yourself.


A little more about me:
Full of zest & creative ideas, I tend to push the boundaries when it comes to having fun.
I'm somewhat of a "foodie" & enjoy exploring new places for my favorite things.

I crave adventure, fun, and excitement...
Being bold and daring, I don't shy away from unique experiences. Spontaneity is a regular part of my life.
If I see something I want, I'm not afraid go after it, right then and there.

Don't take me too seriously when we're out and about; I'm always making jokes have a sarcastic / flirty nature.
That said, you should know that if I can push your buttons and give you a hard time, you can rest assured I'll do it!


Now then, this is where YOU come in, and we begin the "interactive" portion of the program.

I'm interested in meeting friendly, polite, considerate, compassionate people.
Someone who isn't timid or clams up in a social setting, but still knows how to act in public, when letting loose and having a good time.
(It would behoove you to be able to take a joke, as well as dish one out.)

If you're adventurous when it comes to food, we can be "besties" and roam the area for the latest and greatest places to eat, drink and be merry!
Or..... we can find some other random activity and become our own modern-day version of "Bonnie Clyde".

Just imagine the limitless possibilities...

I obviously can't read EVERY profile on this site... and I know there are some AMAZING women that I'll never meet, unless they lose the shyness routine; and just send me an email of some sort....

Now the ball is in your court. (What'cha gonna do with it?)


 
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I'm new to this site and I must say you guys have given me a great weekend project to fix up my match profile. I'll show results once I get it updated.


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