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Unread 07-25-2012, 09:14 PM
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Default Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?

I've been doing good with a cold reading technique I learned from a PUA member on here when I'm emailing most girls on OkCupid. However, this cold reading technique is not as effective on POF (or Plenty Of Fish). So far I've had 17 girls give me an ioi, but out of the 17 I've only recieved a response from two different girls. The rest of them for more than 3 days as of now have not made an attempt to respond. I see this as a serious problem.

So here's what I did since I got tired of being ignored by a girl I really wanted to pick up. I don't recommend this, but if you use it, I strongly suggest you use this with extreme caution! Also like all techniques, this will not work for every girl that ignores you.

This is what I used when I emailed a girl, only to recieve an IOI with no response after 3 days or more on POF:

Lol! ....Oh really! That ignore trick won't work on me. So I'm guessing you're either a nazi or you're just another one of those shy girls. =D

In response, this is what she said back:

Sorry Michael wasn't trying to ignore you, sometimes I get on read an email and have to switch to something quick or leave it up and walk aways, who knows. Just busy sometimes. I do appreciate your patience and your willingness to not surrender, says alot about you. My name is Renee and it's nice to meet you electronically lol. How was your day?

I know this is probably not the best technique when a girl ignores you, but I had to test it and see what would happen. But what I want to know is can any of you come up with a better technique that's more efficient when a PUA sends an opener to a girl, only in return the girl only gives you an IOI with no response after 3 days or more?

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Default Re: Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?

MoonlightHaven,

Hey man, I see the logic behind your approach, but ti does come off somewhat needy.

I think you need to just tone it down...

Honestly these last few days i've been "running" game on tons of girls, and had quite my share of successes, and quite my share or rejections.

Then today I was talking to this one girl, and she listed a quality about her i really didn't like...and well...I didn't respond.

Keep these three things in mind:

1. You don't need her
2.You have options
3.You don't need an answer

Regards,

DandyLion


 
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Default Re: Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?

I sometimes use a line about her not paying the internet bill with it resorting to getting cut off and that's why she isn't responding. Usually they comes back with a laugh or a strong reaction defending herself.


 
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Default Re: Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?

I would have to agree with DandyLion on this one. It's good to test stuff out and try new things, but if she doesn't respond sending her a message calling her out on it is a little needy. What I've always done is wait about a month and message them again, as if the first message never was sent. It's worked a few times for me, sometimes they just get busy and can't reply to all the guys who message them.


 
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Default Re: Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?

Heyo, I agree with all those fellas up there, and just to add an opinon-

"Hey how u been, long time no email! (if u have any connection/inside joke add it here) well I been busy with *school, training monkeys, whaterver*, but seeing if u wanna get coffee this week.. emails a lot to keep up with so let's trade numbers and I'll text u"

If you've already made a connection, she'll probably send u her #, then go with a little text game, and make some plans from there.
It's been workin for me, cuz nobody wants to play around for long online, if she likes u enough she'll make an effort, if not move on. It's easy to get a number over email I think if u got ioi's, then u see from there. Some may flake, others won't, some u might flake on

Also if that seems needy, just go with the first part, and ask out for coffee or whatever later. Just be cool and get to the point, don't waste her time, and don't let her waste yours.
If she doesn't respond for awhile, move on or come back around later on if u think u can, like one of these pua's mentioned before.

Good luck and cheers!


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