ex IMed me,

I'm trying to remain cool and not like falling back in my old complimenting nice crap, so im doing my best to follow the methods ive learned but any chance i can get a voice in my head on AIM to help me out lol

if your ex starts a convo after some time it means either she wants a piece of it or she wants to fark with your life.

buddy just be cool, SMOOTH and she was already yours you know her.

act as if you been doing just fine and great in your life since shes left and that you dont need her. Also the person that cares the less holds the most control. take control of yourself brothr, i know its hard. If you start a convo with her via im, just respond back with your doing great and your busy with something big like a project that your really excited bout. then just end the convo there without saying bye or talk to you soon