answering personal ads.

ok, ive been on a dating website and when answering a personal ad do you think starting with "well you sound like a snotty little girl....." is a different or good way to answer?

I think it is different, but certainly not good. Say something to bring out our sassy side... without putting her down.

Anyone else?

Well the message i sent was "hey dude, well you sound like a snotty little girl. hows you? x"

She did read my message, checked out my profile, but never replied.

Here is my profile eddieadventurer hull Uk singles, hull Uk women

What do you think to it?


The girl i sent the message to is pretty hot and by coincidence is the same girl who attends the street dancing classes i go to! I havent spoke to her yet and didnt expect to find her on that site. Anyway, shes probably thinking i cant believe he sent me that message!!!! lol

no offense dude, but the pic of you with your shirt off in bed is kind of creepy

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i got some tough love for you. Dont be mad, work and the things ill talk about and just get better from this.

your profile feels fake. its also using many PUA theories together along with some canned lines. its a recipe for disaster and many girls will smell poser/wannabe from a mile away.

Your picture should be of you with a smile on your face looking friendly.

i see you are going for the whole jerk thing. you have to go completely over the top to make it work. going half way will only get you so far. so far as in nowhere.

you are a "stuntman" then farking make that first date interesting or just make it adventurous. maybe make it a Mystery and make the girls guess and gets curious about it.

your about me is well qualifying yourself to the girls. make it so that they qualify to you.

dont say that women bore you, if you were meeting enough women you would be finding interesting women along the way. They will think its either that or you are trying to figure out if you have to come out of the closet.

READ THE MATCHBOOK method if you havent, well you clearly havent.

well my last girlfriend came from that profile and i've just received this message

"hi, hard to handle are you? me too, i also find that men tend to bore me unless they are quite exciting. you seem very confident, thats an attractive trait unless you are just full of yourself? alot of people talk the talk, very few have reason to. whats your latest adventure?"

what do you think? unfortunately she is a single mum and im really after a woman who doesnt have any kids.

im not sure about a smiling picture cause i dont smile very often anyway. however i agree we are always there to qualify them so maybe i could say for the first date

"take me somewhere nice, im choosy x"

instead of "a cup of tea in a cafe and some stimulating conversation x"

btw the picture with my shirt off is also on facebook with many compliments from women.

saw my hot dancing girl at the dance class last night. she always drops bag next to mine but seems to shy to talk to me....

i think i see the problem here..... if you were as badass and awesome as your profile said you were(alpha), you would have had no problem overcoming your obvious shyness and talked to her when she dropped her bag instead of staring @her(beta) whats stopping you from initiating conversation with her? shes coming over to you for a reason, how many times is she going to put her bag next to yours or stand/dance near you before you talk to her?

i think you are trying to present an image that is simply not there. That is why it comes off as forced when you read it online. its way to choppy; when reading it feels like you thought about every word you wrote down instead of it coming off smooth and casual.

so pick one and go with it! either be alpha online and alpha in life, or beta in life and then go switch your profile to something more relaxed and funny. maybe with some questions or just a funny quote from tv/movie/book/poster/anywhere to provoke some conversation, then work it and close the number and start txt game and meet up.

Also, this whole forum is meant to help and guide each other's kocks. Coming in with the I know everything attitude, and being unwilling to receive criticism will get you exactly where you already are.