what would be a good opener ??

What would be a good Opener for POF when they just click that they want to meet you, I am assuming that the meet me feature on the site is just a boredom tool atleast thats what I think of those things as I used to do them before I had a little taste of the game. Anyway a HB 8 sent me a she wants to meet you thing and I was wondering what would be the best opener (neg) to start that conversation off with I have tried a few in the past but they seem to fail and I don't even remember them at all so why would she?? Your suggestions much appreciated I am sure this is a question alot of POF users would like to know.

This on works for me;

"Hey, you look like someone who can answer this question! So this girl kisses my friend, but he’s gotta girlfriend. Do you think that’s cheating?"

I have no results yet but I believe this is a good one for the POF girls clicking they want to meet you but they dont want to send a message probably cuz they are shy... Anyway here is what I came up with and I think it would spark some interest, Maestro thanks man for a damn good Opener I am gonna use it on the next girl I message but I don't think you understood the question... Its opener would be a good opener to send to a girl that has clicked they want to meet you but they didn't send no message. I have come up with a good one and here it is, I am putting it in all CAPS so it is known what the message is and isn't in all this big long paragraph explaining the opener DON'T send it to the girl in all caps ...


WHEN,WHERE, AND WHAT TIME OF DAY?

P.S. SHOULD I BRING A FRIEND FOR ALL I KNOW YOU MIGHT BE ONE OF THOSE CRAZY PEOPLE THEY TALK ABOUT ONLINE ..


Let me know what you guys think of this I will post field report on it and see what I get also please post your openers and share them with the world I know for a fact that I am not the only one wondering about this many POF users know exactly what I am talking about... Even use ones where they befriend you and send no message at all those are the hard ones to open I use myyearbook for example and I get befriended all the time and these girls some of them are cute but they send no messages.. The hardest part is trying to come up with an opener that works for a girl that befriends you and doesn't send you a message.. So reply and post your openers lets see what we get and feel free to try mine out I am here for help and to help what help I can give being fairly wet behind the ears... Have fun to all


Sincerely

Cythe

The when, where and what time.....etc is a little needy. You need to control the situation, any situation from the get go. Don't give them any more power then they think they have. Remember it is all about confidence no matter what the situation is or about to be created. You have own that situation.

That Opener I gave you works in any situation, either in a cold call or in a warmed up conversation, which is a great transitory to move the conversation towards sex which is where you want it to go as quickly as possible. I used it at a Strip Club last night and it worked like the gem that it is.

Whenever I want to hang out with a girl, I NEVER EVER ask. I tell her. It sounds demanding but after a few years, and hundreds of dates and girls, there is one thing I can honestly say that all women have in common, and that is that they NEVER want to make a decision and are in all honesty scared to make a choice.

So when it comes to asking a girl to hang out, I never ask her, I tell her. I say, Friday I am going to X PLACE so be ready by 8 to come with me.
Being direct shows you are in control.

I have had girls on plenty of fish hit the meet me button. I find it annoying, because they can look at my picture and want to meet me but they can't send a message. So I usually send a message in reply saying... "Oh so you can want to "meet me" but you haven't introduced yourself. Too shy? I like a woman who is a go getter."
You can use a variation of it. But basically what you are doing is calling her out on her stuff. It's tricky online to do because you can't get the right tone across, but if the girl actually was interested in you, she'll make up some excuse and get the conversation going.

I hear exactly what you guys are saying, it did work but she thought I was trying to have sex with her or something I mean we agreed to conversate that's all im saying right now but I will post full field report soon thanx for the openers guys really helps

I"m gonna try the.. "So do you have a good job? Cause I need a woman who can support me while I make music all day" approach

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I am agree with this. Whenever I want to hang out with a girl, I NEVER EVER ask. I tell her. It sounds demanding but after a few years, and hundreds of dates and girls, there is one thing I can honestly say that all women have in common, and that is that they NEVER want to make a decision and are in all honesty scared to make a choice.

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