[JayW]

EDIT: Not sure why my link got edited out. Maybe that's why no one has bothered to comment. My username on POF is JayW0311.

I've been trying to keep my mouth shut and my eyes and ears open on here, using the search function and reading what others have to say. Then using it as inspiration for my own writing, or simply adapting it to fit. What I was doing before obviously wasn't working, so, "Improvise, Adapt, Overcome", right?


I'm trying to get better pictures on my POF profile. My friends are all Flakes, have their own lives and families to worry about, or can't take a picture to save their lives. I may just have to set the timer on the camera in my phone and see how that works out. I took the advice I read somewhere, maybe it was on here, I don't remember, and put a couple pics up on Hot or Not. The one of me in front of the tree has done pretty well so far (9.3, even though it's only 114 votes), so either I'm pretty decent or I got trolled hard. Haha.

Before you ask what I want out of POF, I'm pretty much cool with whatever. I'm not actively TRYING to have sex with every attractive and disease-free female in Ohio, but I wouldn't turn up my nose at some NSA sex, either. I'm not actively LOOKING for a girlfriend or relationship, but I'm not trying to avoid it, either. Although it would be nice. I feel like a bitch admitting this, but none of you know me in real life, so I can safely say that I'm sick of being lonely. I'm just getting back into the dating thing after being married for 10 years, and the last two years sucked. The last 8 months of the marriage I basically had all the drawbacks of both married life and single life, and none of the advantages of either (read: I didn't get laid and didn't even companionship).

So anyhow, pointers would be nice, and if you would, please be specific. Don't just say "Be funnier", for example.

Thanks in advance.

[JayW]

Edited because I didn't realize that a link was apparently a bad thing to have in the post.

[Shill]

I've been trying to keep my mouth shut and my eyes and ears open on here, using the search function and reading what others have to say. Then using it as inspiration for my own writing, or simply adapting it to fit. What I was doing before obviously wasn't working, so, "Improvise, Adapt, Overcome", right?

Smart.

I'm trying to get better pictures on my POF profile.

My friends are all Flakes, have their own lives and families to worry about, or can't take a picture to save their lives. I may just have to set the timer on the camera in my phone and see how that works out. I took the advice I read somewhere, maybe it was on here, I don't remember, and put a couple pics up on Hot or Not. The one of me in front of the tree has done pretty well so far (9.3, even though it's only 114 votes), so either I'm pretty decent or I got trolled hard. Haha

1. Go out and do something fun and adventurous. Ask someone to take a photo of you.

2. No: Shirtless posing pictures. That's try-hard.
3. No: Frat-party pictures. Again: Try-Hard
4. No: Player-esque pictures with tons of women: Try-Hard
5. Anything immature.

6. Pictures with pets
7. Fun and Adventurous
8. Anything interesting / a hobby.

9. Sometimes less is more. Having a single really attractive photo is far better than having a bunch of photos that make you seem less attractive.

10. Aim for modesty. That's attractive.

I feel like a bitch admitting this, but none of you know me in real life, so I can safely say that I'm sick of being lonely.

So focus on social circle game to build a "dynasty" of relationships. You will no longer be lonely. It's awesome having hot chicks in your life, even if you do not have sex with them.

Don't look at couples as being a target with an obstacle. Couples are your friend. They fill in your life style and probably know hot chicks can go meet up and bang.

If you need to be reminded of what a pussy feels like, see an escort. That will solve attachment-outcome, and any desperation that might be there.

I'm just getting back into the dating thing after being married for 10 years, and the last two years sucked. The last 8 months of the marriage I basically had all the drawbacks of both married life and single life, and none of the advantages of either (read: I didn't get laid and didn't even companionship).

I married in my early twenties and separated almost exactly a year ago. I have been fully in the "Game" for close to a year now and my life has improved tremendously.

Please take heed of what I said about building a new social circle and sarging for "friends" and "couples", while you work on your skills to get things like multiple term relationships and same-night-lays.