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Old 12-04-2011, 05:31 PM
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Default any ideas on how to re-initiate convo?

alright so im off to great start and then all of a sudden, the replies stop coming in... not sure how to re-initiate so so thats what id like some help on. thanks guys

me: hajima!

me: ps. i probably should have added that means "stop" in korean if by the chance you dont actually speak korean lol

her: LOOOOOOOOOL. the first thing that came to mind was "stop what?" -___- Yes I speak korean fluently

me: haha thats my favourite korean word, i know a handful of words/phrases cause i try and get the korean kids to teach me (i work at a daycare) but let me tell you... SUCH a hard language to speak haha. youre gonna have to teach me how to say "i win" :P

her: awww thats really nice and yeah its really hard I must add in. Even I don't know reallllly well. But apparently for someone whose born in Canada, Im pretty amazing :$

me: lol well for someone who has the background, youd most definitely be better at it than the average white man haha. so what sort of trouble did you cause this weekend? or did you save all the trouble for sunday

her: LOOOOOOL. hey hey hey... *giggle*haha naw I dont get into trouble anymore Sundays are always my workout days !

me: anymore eh? id love to hear a story haha

so if anyone has a good line to use or an idea, id love to hear. thanks guys.


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Old 12-05-2011, 11:07 AM
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Default Re: any ideas on how to re-initiate conv

It all depends on how long she has left it? All you can do is leave it as you don't want to come across too needy.


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Old 12-30-2011, 12:02 AM
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Default Re: any ideas on how to re-initiate convo?

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Originally Posted by dchen19 View Post
alright so im off to great start and then all of a sudden, the replies stop coming in... not sure how to re-initiate so so thats what id like some help on. thanks guys

me: hajima!

me: ps. i probably should have added that means "stop" in korean if by the chance you dont actually speak korean lol

her: LOOOOOOOOOL. the first thing that came to mind was "stop what?" -___- Yes I speak korean fluently
This was good. I like your Opener and that was some good reply investment from her.

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me: haha thats my favourite korean word, i know a handful of words/phrases cause i try and get the korean kids to teach me (i work at a daycare) but let me tell you... SUCH a hard language to speak haha. youre gonna have to teach me how to say "i win" :P

her: awww thats really nice and yeah its really hard I must add in. Even I don't know reallllly well. But apparently for someone whose born in Canada, Im pretty amazing :$
Too much rapport building. She's replying to you out of politeness.

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me: lol well for someone who has the background, youd most definitely be better at it than the average white man haha. so what sort of trouble did you cause this weekend? or did you save all the trouble for sunday
You need more attraction material. Reason: you're assuming too much about a woman you've never met. Considerations:

- it would be more fun to assume she's trying to impress you.
- how do you know she can even speak Korean? Or even speak Korean well? How do you know she's even Korean and not just making that up? How do you know she's not some white-washed Korean girl that hates Korean food and raves about hockey.

Tease and challenge her as you find out things about her you like. Stereotype the GENERAL, QUALIFY the specific.

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her: LOOOOOOL. hey hey hey... *giggle*haha naw I dont get into trouble anymore Sundays are always my workout days !

me: anymore eh? id love to hear a story haha
More boring nice-guy talk.

This comes to mind: "That's what the last trouble-making korean girl said to me! I don't know about you... you still haven't told me how to say "I win" in Korean."


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Old 02-07-2012, 06:59 PM
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Default Re: any ideas on how to re-initiate convo?

That was a good Opener, even if she's white-washed she still probably knows that word. I think your problem is where to go once you open. I can tell you've never developed dhv stories before. Look them up there's 6 categories. Make sure you can segue from one DHV category to the other if you need to buy more time.


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