Still Clueless

Hey anyone please help! I'm going crazy, I can't sustain any type of conversation on POF. I have been on the site since December 2008, and have only met 4 girls from the site, and they weren't all 10's to say the least. I had one leave me for another guy, while we met up. I copy and paste all my openers, mainly the jealous girlfriend Opener, and can't turn it into any type of meaningful conversation. I havent had sex since January 2011 and that was from a girl that I used to work with. My goal for 2012 is to have sex with a girl, obviously, and continue to date her afterwords. Since, I'm a needy guy, AFC at my core I dont know how to have fun with girls. I have a big nose, and no job, I own business, but its not doing well at all. In my developmental years, my teen years, girls would make fun of my nose, and I would never say anything to them. I would keep my mouth shut because I didnt want any problems. Honestly, it hurt, when beautiful hot girls would make fun of me, its not like I wanted to say anything mean to them, because they were hot. I've been told I am decent looking, but I have no personality when it comes to girls. I'm not quick witted. I always stiffen up, even if a girl laughs at my response, and may be interested, I still have no idea what to say or write. I'm 31 now, and I just want some affection. Living without any type of pu$$y is destroying me. I can't handle it anymore.

Girls that I like, typically end up fuking another guy that I know.

I am that guy, that was always hoping, and believed in fate, but that didnt work. I feel like a great girl missed out on the prime years of my life. I don't want to put down anyone, but bar backs and bus boys have more value than me, when I go to bars, they seem to be the ones fuking the bartenders. I don't approach girls, mostly because they are with other guys.

After some thinking after my post, where would I be able to find good material on sh1t tests and to improve my wit.

Well i try to use pof in my down time. honestly the site is crap the girls are very unresponsive. i think you should focus on real game go out to the mall or a club and try to open as many sets as you can. It can only improve your game and help you get over aa. check out some of the basic threads first like ioi , openers, approaching women, ect... if you try to apply what you are learning you will get it eventually.. If you act confident you will be confident