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Old 01-19-2012, 04:39 PM
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Exclamation Girl re-initiates after a month..

So I wanted to get some advice on this issue. I emailed a girl just over a month ago when I first started online dating, standard email about some of her interests. She responded once with a short email, then stopped replying. She then re-initiated after over a month.

The emails looked something like below.. I just changed the details:

Me: I saw your profile and had to say I love watching action movies too! I also noticed you are studying Y which is awesome, which school are you at?

Her: Haha yes, action movies are awesome. What are your favourites? I'm at X, what about you?

Me: My favourites would be MI:4, bla, bla.. What about you? I am studying (something) at (somewhere). Are you almost finished with your degree?

*** No reply for over a month

Her: I am so sorry for the slow response. I haven't been on here much, and noticed I never replied to you. MI:4 is amazing.. I love the part where (something) happens! My other favourites are bla..bla. And yes I will be finished my degree this year.


How should I approach this?

I was thinking of starting off something like "I don't know if I can ever forgive you for the long delay. But you may be able to make it up to me somehow.. "


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Old 02-07-2012, 06:44 PM
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Default Re: Girl re-initiates after a month..

Sounds good, just cut off the second sentence, too sexual at this point, need to escalate into that later. She's a great candidate to get digits from.


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Old 02-08-2012, 12:26 PM
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Default Re: Girl re-initiates after a month..

But, at the same time the first sentence is too seriously written as-is. You don't want her to think that you have been waiting this whole time for a reply. "I haven't been on here much" is a nice way of saying she found someone else more fun in the mean time. Think nothing of it and DON'T call her out on it. The good news is that other guy screwed up, and it's your turn again. You don't want to come off sounding pathetic or she will quickly drop you again.


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