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    norvanorva is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Possible sh1t test from girl I've dated 3 times

    Before today, I had been on three dates with a girl I met online. They went like this:

    1) Met for coffee (she wanted to keep chatting, I kept it to 45 minutes) - kiss close
    2) Went to museum and then lunch (she was totally into both activities, again I enforced a time limit) - kiss close.
    3) Grabbed dinner during the week (went great) - kiss close.

    Well I told her last weekend (I was travelling then) to keep Saturday afternoon and evening open for a few surprises. We were supposed to meet at 2 -- she told me she was running late and didn't make it until 2:40.

    After she arrived (kiss and Kino started immediately), we walked past a parent yelling at a kid about his curfew. I made a joke about adults not having curfews. She then told me that she actually had to have dinner with her favorite aunt tonight. This despite her agreeing to keep the evening open and me doing a lot of planning for it.

    I was beyond pissed, but didn't say anything. I just told her about the first planned activity, did it, tried to act cool, and then afterward asked her how much time she had left. She said an hour, so I said that I didn't know what we could do in an hour (her eating later ruled out food). She said that we should get drinks. We did and the conversation really didn't flow because I felt cheated and like we were up against the clock. She kept checking the time and then I walked her to her car and couldn't even bring myself to kiss her.

    Do I just next her or call her and talk about it? I know that I should have done something different here!

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    don pimpin sheezy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Possible sh1t test?

    The problem is all these initial dates you set time limits so why should she think that you would want to hang-out with her for an extended period of time? If you're both enjoying each other's company fucking extend the date. If I'm meeting a girl for coffee and it's going well, after awhile I'll probably extend her an invitation to go play pool, get something to eat, hang-out at my place, whatever.

    Why are you setting time limits for your dates? If you're truly a busy person that's understandable (and I'd start planning a more flexible piece of time for your dates in the future), but if you're just pretending to be I'd stop it and not let it cutoff another good date.

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    Default Re: Possible sh1t test?

    Same thinking here: Why would you cut off a good going date? My aim always is to have as much pleasure as possible. And i don't think cutting off a good going date is so much pleasure.. if you like what's going on you might consider not cutting off your dates! I don't see any sense in that


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