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    penguin is offline PUA in Training
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    Default I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1

    I asked this girl out to a bar to fun and chats and she without consent invited a mutual friend to tag along ...

    is this a sign of disinterest? how can I make this work in my advantage? or still impress her?

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    Default Re: I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1

    Same thing happened to me this weekend. Some help here guys?

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    Default Re: I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1

    update!!

    this turned out well... the guy she invited too invited another girl to come along. Through the bar outting, we were talking about dating and tricks about relaitonships and stuff.. I used my PUA-knowledge to show them I had value and showed I was different than the other guys.. all 3 were nodding and agreeing with no comebacks.

    I also included everyone in the conversation and taught them how to seek their prospects, which in turn was gear towards me getting the girl I originally invited... she seemed to enjoyed my company and I drove them ALL home because I'm like a chauffer, but just dhv-ed.

    I was honest throughout and shared a few personal stories and I said .. "I am looking at some personal time as a single man, but if someone awesome comes along, I will make them feel like the world to me."

    any feedback or tips on how to get this girl out on a date?! feedback on my evening?

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    don pimpin sheezy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1

    Sure you may have impressed them with you're social intelligence but impressing people isn't the goal of this, it's getting laid.. Invite her on a date just the two of you and if she gives resistance move on because she's not interested.

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    Default Re: I asked her out, but then she invited a plus 1

    Yea you kind of got excited over nothing. I am sure you saw some kind of "victory" over turning things around because she invited someone. So yeah you guys had a good friendly night out. Perhaps she wanted her friends approval, but you definitely didn't seem to escalate much or seduce much (from your limited story telling).

    I don't think you dhv'ed by driving them home, in fact it seemed like a dlv. I personally wouldn't have driven them all home unless it was agreed upon earlier. They are adults, if they got there, I am sure they have a way of getting back home (I would only drive them home if they missed the last bus or train).

    Her slippin in some friends without asking, getting a ride for her and all her friends.....seems like she has the upperhand my friend. If you are cool with that...go for it, there are some women who are only compatible with AFC types. Not that you are , but it definitely seems like she's use to that. But then again, maybe thats why she is single, she needs a real man ...show her whats up


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