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    NoSnakesAlive is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What's she doing?

    I texted a girl I've been having consistant sex with for the past three weeks (been seeing her for that long too) and everything was going great. We hung out, I flirted with her, had some drinks, she kept complimenting me. She went as far to say: "I love how confident you are, not over confident, but reflective and confident in the things you say." then she told me how hot I was, how she loved how "manly" I was. Then we had sex and I said "stay the night" it was two am. Then she responded "You really like me don't you?" and I just didn't respond. Then she got weird for a sec, then we had sex again. I passed out she passed out then we woke up and she kissed me right before I went to work, I offered her money for a cab but she refused said I was a sweetheart. She left behind her scarf. I texted her the day after just some casual sh1t.

    I texted her two days ago, no response what so ever. I'm confused why she would ignore me when we were getting into a pattern of texting consistently for a bit. Here is the text if it means anything:

    "Oh man the weather is beautiful today! I'm killing it working to this (a musician we mutually like) album. Anyways hope you're having a good day! ohh and, you left your scarf at my place"

    Haven't heard from her since. Any idea sirs of game?

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    Centre is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's she doing?

    You wrote:
    "Then she responded "You really like me don't you?" and I just didn't respond."
    and later:
    "I'm confused why she would ignore me"

    It could be possible that she is using absence and lack of contact to raise your levels of attachment to her.

    I'm not saying that is the only possibility but it is definitely one to consider

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    uluvtheLD is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What's she doing?

    I dont think you messed up at all. In fact you can use this to your advantage. She was kinda shit testing you with "You really like me don't you?"....she was looking for validation, but she also admitted to you how she likes your confidence and manliness, etc. She probably is pissed, she is thinking she is just a fuck buddy, and she probably feels used and shitty (but only because she really likes you, otherwise she wouldnt care) since you guys have basically have had sex since you met and seem to do nothing else.

    The reason she is breaking the "texting pattern" with you is because she feels used and wants more from you...she wants to break the fuck buddy cycle.

    I wouldnt contact her again since you already messaged her. If a week goes by and there is still no response, go ahead and invite her to a night out....just definitely DO NOT bring up why she ignored you or anything like that.


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