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  1. #1
    bokonon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help Moving from date 2 to date 3

    Hi guys, i want your advice about how to proceed.

    I met a girl on a dating site. She is fun and cool and thinks I am too. We have been out twice, both times arranged on line. The first time we went out, we went to a nice bar in the middle of London. We got on very well and as soon as I got home she had texted me saying we should go out again, there was a bit of texting that night then several days of silence (she was away) until I messaged her online about date two.

    This time we went out to a comedy night, had a great time (bar some blankness in the middle), had some dinner. On the way to the subway (tube) I asked her if she wanted to meet again, and she gave me a huge grin, said she liked me, then we kissed. I dropped her to the tube. She asked me for my email address (why??????) and then departed. She must be overseas now for a bit. I texted it to her when I got home again ("hi there that was a top night. My email address is blah blah blah. Sleep tight x). A little later she texted back and and said she would email me, and that was a week ago. There has been nothing since from me or her. I am not sure how to proceed.

    Date three is big, I know that, which is why I am backing away so as not to pressure her. I haven't contacted her since (like I said I want to play this chilled, like she thinks I am) and dunno what to think, about this. Any ideas? What should I do? I am sure she is into me, but I am shy and not sure how to push this forward to something. Being a noobie-pua is one thing, but handling *relationships* seems to be a little different.

    If I try to hard she will run off, if I don't try she will think I am not interested. The internets are a great place for this, but I am losing out because of my lack of skillz. Further to this - I have been on the dating site since and it's for two reasons:
    - to have a look at her picture (she is multi-cute)
    - i want to take out some other girls to reverse my bad case of one-itus so I can be cool round this girl. So far it's worked, but as you can read, I am up to my neck in shyness....


    Cheers all

    Bokonon
    Last edited by bokonon; 03-17-2012 at 08:39 AM.

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    uluvtheLD is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help Moving from date 2 to date 3

    Aside from playing cool with time, I think you are on the right track. One key to seduction is definitely the Push/Pull. You gave her your email adress and I am sure said some smooth things to her...you are now, it seems, pushing by acting cool and staying away BUT!!!!!!!!.......pa rt of pushing is also contacting her but seeming disinterested.....as in contact her but poke fun a bit, or tell how how you are busy because of cool new things in your life, etc. but dont come off as showing off (dont say how many chicks are jocking you, or how you beat some guy up, or you splurged on a ton of new clothes).

    But to answer your question more directly, it seems like some time has passed. So just ask her what shes up to these days and if shes around town. If shes around say you feel like doing BLAH BLAH BLAH and tell her she should come hang out and have a fun night.
    Last edited by uluvtheLD; 03-28-2012 at 09:53 PM. Reason: misread something

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    AstroBoy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help Moving from date 2 to date 3

    Dude, I know that feel. This used to happen to me a lot and very rarely does now due to one thing, I learned that you can actually control the texts you back but it early game stuff and requires a good but of understanding and practice, I simply reversed the roles using the basic principal on every set that I am the prize. I never ever even for a second think that she won't text me back because I am the alpha. If she doesn't and I doesn't work I usually will say something like

    "I had you down as a bad replier, too bad! I had you figured that with a little work you might even be girlfriend material :P"

    or

    "No reply eh? This is definitely going on your coolness chart, shame you were doing so well :P"

    If I can say anything about your game right now it's that you really need to work more and focus heavily on YOU being the prize, you are the one she should be chasing. So for that reason I would say that the above comments are not magic bullets but really get working on your game in that respect. John Sinn has some really good articles and material on "Prize game" I suggest you have a read

    One other note is don't let your interactions become stale EVER, even if it means sending a few texts or whatever, and sacrificing a little buying temp, just be cool with your texts and make them exciting and cool as fuck! Lie like a motherfucker if you have nothing cool to say. If you have been on 2 dates you might be getting boring to her. Be faster, I aim for sex on the first date and I bail if it hasn't happened on the end of the 3rd unless I really like the chick. Time waits for no man!
    We are limited only by our creativity.

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    bokonon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help Moving from date 2 to date 3

    Thanks to all repliers. That's bloody cool of you.

    B


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