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    nyqwill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Maybe too much Pull, any way to recover, or just ditch it?

    So a couple weeks ago I ran into a girl I used to go to school with. We hit it off, and she initiated Kino, things looked good. She had a friend with her, who was drunk very drunk and attention starved. As the night went on, her friend was on me more and more. Eventually the girl I was interested in decided to take her friend home and we exchanged numbers. She suggested getting together when "her friend wasn't in my lap" with a laugh.
    I waited a couple days, and sent her a text that set up a day to get together. Leading up to that day we exchanged messages and I got the weird feeling she was gaming me... Then she bailed last minute on the date, and rescheduled. Normally that would be the end for me, but I figured I'd say what happened. The rescheduled day came, we met up and had a great time. She was kino-ing all night and at the end when I dropped her off at her place we got into it in the car.

    I'm thinking things are going well, this is where I get messed up a bit and need advice. So during the course of our date she had mentioned doing things with me, watching a certain show, playing vid games and going with me to an event in another city 2 days later (I took her out Friday, event was Sunday) So Saturday goes by, a mutual friend texts me to tell me they're at the bar with the girl and I should come. I say I had other plans, but ask how busy it is. No real contact. Sunday comes and I shoot her a text asking how hungover she is, and she responds with "I feel like death". I tell her that for all her boasting about drinking, she's an amateur with a wink and get no reply. A while later I'm getting ready to leave and send her a message telling her if she feels that bad I won't bother bugging her to come, but maybe later we'll hang out. No reply.
    Hours later, it's evening and I ask how the afterlife is treating her, she responds with "still dead" I responded with something about owing me a hangout with a wink and got nothing back. Now it's been a couple days... And normally I'd cut and run, but the earlier encounters with her were extremely positive. I'm looking for advice on whether I should press a bit or leave it alone. I'm inclined to say leave it, but it feels like I'm over-reacting... Opinions?

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    pickpocket is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Maybe too much Pull, any way to recover, or just ditch it?

    Don't text winky faces or double question marks it implies that you're interested in her. Even if you've had sex with her doesn't mean the deals done you still have to show some indifference so text her like you would text your guy friends; would you ever send a guy friend a winky face? Here's something that might help you recover: try putting her in the friend zone with a couple of these lines:
    "You're like the little sister I never had (or you remind of me of one of my little sister's friends)."
    "It's good we met. I don't know if we're right for each other but we can be friends for sure."
    "I can tell you would make a great friend. You're so nice."

    These lines make great additions to your text game and the worst that can happen is she won't text you back so I say go for it.
    -pickpocket

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    nyqwill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Maybe too much Pull, any way to recover, or just ditch it?

    Took your advice, Texted her that I had almost changed my opinion of her, thought of her as a friend even. Right up until she took my jacket and went AWOL. I told her I had had a friend like her as a kid, he was a ginger named Ricky.

    instant response and now we're back flirting again.


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