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Thread: Text her immediately

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    Default Text her immediately

    I was just watching a video of Sasha interviewing Gareth Jones, who apparently is a texting expert. Sasha asked him for a tip that viewers could apply tomorrow, and he said the following:

    "Whenever you get a girl's number, send a text right away. Send her this:

    "Hey, it's (name). Save this number. It's the most important number you'll ever get. ".

    This is going to allow a ton of different opportunities. Number one: it's going to allow you to make sure she has your number saved, so you'll never run into a "who's this?" kinds situation.

    Number two: it's going to allow her to open up text communication. She has seen that you already made the effort to communicate, so if she likes you she's going to reply to you and be like "hahaha, so what are you up to?".

    And if she's very social, likes to communicate, or drunk, you're going to cut two or three days off the process because you're not going to wait before texting her."

    I thought it was a nice piece of info so I decided to drop it here. Enjoy.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    That tip is actually gold. I usually dial in their numbers and then call immediately and then they will ask who it is. If they actually answer then have fun with the moment. I have gotten texts or calls within hours every time I have used this on a woman I have created attraction with.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    I agree with this. I typically send one immediately or the day of. The two day rule is nonsense. It really just allows time for her to get annoyed or forget that initial attraction/connection she had with you as to why she did initially give you her number.

    Texting something funny and creative immediately opens up a flood gate of opportunity. You establish yourself as different, funny, cute, and confident.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    I definitely agree with this. My favorite that I came up with is:

    "This is an official "(your name) thinks you're awesome text". If you feel you have received this text in error, too bad. Suck it up and enjoy the compliment anyway.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    I tried this several of times in the past, it always gets a response like "haha, oh is it now?" "I heard this was the most important number I will ever get."

    The first time it didn't work, was today on a HB9! I got her number from work, and because I was too busy at the moment to text her, I did within a few hours. Sent, and nothing! Oh well, I was proud of my day game, and I have had my eye on her for months! lol

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    Okay here's my stance on this whole text her immediately issue. I do think it is a good idea if done properly. I think texting a girl the first day after she is long gone is a horrible idea as this demonstrates neediness and an AFC attitude.

    What I think is powerful and intriguing is texting her immediately while you are still with her. This is crucial! This helps to build attraction while you are all standing there chatting she will get your text and you can flirt with her some more by grabbing her phone and making sure she didn't give you a fake number. I think this will be a good way of getting a feel for a woman and helps her to remember you when you actually do call.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    Agreed, texting while she's presently present can be pretty impactful. As soon as I hold my celly in position I'm prepared to text. Before she throws me the number I'm thinking Environment, Attitude/Personality & Unique Item/Feature. For instance, when I pull her in the food court of my mall she's wearing a blue Jumpsuit.. When she throw me the number I'll text, "OK Fairlane Blue, You & Big Daddy are on lock for the weekend. Details tonight. " I leave her thinking about me all day excited for me to hit her up that night with the details of our next meeting the weekend. It's not canned and authentic and created out of the moment so girls gone automatically say you a real dude and will more than likely be more comfortable because you obviously are. And you rocked that interaction like a man by taking charge females love that.

    I can see the topic post working but I avoid generic text like that because it seems less authentic. But to each his own. Have fun gentleman. Peace.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    For the first year or so I got into game I would wait to text til the next day, I think I got maybe 2 responses out of like 30 numbers, both ended up flaking anyway because my text game was weak. My overall game was not solid either but then as soon as I started texting immediately after leaving the convo I don't think I haven't got a response once (maybe 1 time since I started doing this). I got a couple fake numbers and some girls who have flaked later on when it came time to see them again but almost all the real numbers at least respond.

    Texting right after you see them within a few mins, you can just FEEL the connection maintaining, and even if your game wasn't good they are a lot more likely to respond than if you wait a few hrs or a day or 2. I learned this from a boot camp but didn't feel right until I started doing it. Just try it you'll see what I mean.

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    Default Re: Text her immediately

    I usually do that anyway. Except I add something to it like "Treat this number like a government document. It's the most important number you will ever receive." The second part is almost verbatim.


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