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  1. #1
    BluegrassBoy05 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Don't Know What's Going On....

    Hey boys, just need some advice and this is kind of a long story....

    I met this astonishingly amazing woman on a dating site and we went on our first date at the beginning of the month. Dinner is great, she's brilliant, absolutely beautiful, funny, and extremely outgoing. We go over and have a beer late night at the bar across the street, and sit there and talk until closing time.

    Walk out: WHAM! walking makeout session that goes all the way back to her car and carries on for a couple of hours. She drives me back to my car, more of the same ensues. She tells me to call her tomorrow, and we go our separate ways. I get a text from her saying "I just made it home safe! You're an amazing kisser, I'll dream of you tonight." I come back with the same sentiment.

    So there I was, went to sleep thinking it was all well and good. Called her the next day, no answer, left a message. She texts me and says maybe Tuesday, and then on Tuesday she ends up working late and then going to do family stuff.

    I let it cool off, and then re-initiate contact, she says that she's been sick and is really sorry, but maybe that Wednesday. Which is where she ends up covering for her boss' position while he's on vacation, no biggie.

    She gets rid of her profile on the site, and I do the same. At this point we've been communicating every day. This past week she says "maybe this coming weekend, I'm still covering for the boss until Thursday." I say "sure." Then I see that she's back on the site. Whatever, we're not exclusive, and she says that we might see each other tomorrow.

    Am I barking up the wrong tree here? or am I just being paranoid?

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    AstroBoy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Don't Know What's Going On....

    Paranoia man
    You should have at least 3 chicks that your nailing from the dating site so you don't get this issue!

    If she flakes again you have to punish her by moving on, she will start to realize fast that you can be walked over and that's not what you want.

    If she is interested she will work for your attention, freeze her out right now until the date and on the morning of the date send her a good statement that you can deduct her intent to appear at your agreed meeting place.

    Something like, "I'm sure they don't let girls with jeans on into this bar / club / restaurant so just a little heads up :P I'll be wearing a morph suit and carrying an inflatable rubber ring so you recognize me !"

    From this you will be able to deduct her intent to show or not.

    But get hunting man! I have 5 girls I'm currently seeing :P Catch up!

    ~Astro
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  3. #3
    BluegrassBoy05 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Don't Know What's Going On....

    YEEEEAH buddy!

    I guess I just needed to hear something like that.

    I'll keep you posted on how the technique works out! Thanks Sir!

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    AstroBoy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Don't Know What's Going On....

    No worries dude! Looks like you got your game under control! I suggest one thing, you should get programming your self, it seems like you have a little underlying confidence issue, I'd suggest tackling this by listening to an amazing song that really gets your confidence pumping and playing it every time you pull off some epic PUA maneuvers, pretty soon every time you hear that song you will be so confident it's actually unreal! Mine is a song by infected mushroom called "Becoming insane" every time I hear it I become the fu*cking animal I am right now!

    Hit the thanks button if

    ~Astro
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    BluegrassBoy05 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Don't Know What's Going On....

    UPDATE

    Haven't talked to her since Friday afternoon, when she said "maybe tomorrow" and I said "OK, sounds good, let me know working til bla bla bla".

    Nothing, nada, zilch.

    Have not tried to contact her since then.

    Continue no contact?


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