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    ImaGoodlady69 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Does he want a relationship?

    So I've been seeing this guy for awhile now. He gets in contact with me everyday whether it be through email or phone to ask how my day is going. We aim every night mad just talk about our day, family,just to get to know each other more. Everytime we hangout we usually meet at his apartment, have sex about 3 or 4 times and then go out to places. Everytime he has a day off he wants to know if I have that day off too so that we could hang out. Like next week he has Monday and Wednesday off and he wants to hangout both days and take me to the Edgar Allen Poe Museum and he is my favorite poet. But what I want to know is, is he in it for the sex or does it sound like he wants a relationship?

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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    Why in the world would someone want to spend so much time with a girl, taking her to some museum he probably would otherwise think is boring as hell if he didn't see a potential of a future with her and wanted to pursue it?

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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    of course he wants a relationship if he's doing all this stuff but i'm curious why do u think otherwise oh and since u're a girl i was wondering if u can answer my post: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/10589-ndr-tdr.html
    P.S: T means tester: basically a tester goes out with a lot of guys at the same time(does not mean she sleeps with them easily)
    N means iNvestor meaning she picks a guy and goes out with him and keeps going out with him even when she finds his flaws

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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by ImaGoodlady69 View Post
    So I've been seeing this guy for awhile now. He gets in contact with me everyday whether it be through email or phone to ask how my day is going. We aim every night mad just talk about our day, family,just to get to know each other more. Everytime we hangout we usually meet at his apartment, have sex about 3 or 4 times and then go out to places. Everytime he has a day off he wants to know if I have that day off too so that we could hang out. Like next week he has Monday and Wednesday off and he wants to hangout both days and take me to the Edgar Allen Poe Museum and he is my favorite poet. But what I want to know is, is he in it for the sex or does it sound like he wants a relationship?
    Yeah, he's definitely not looking for a relationship, I'd next the shit out of him.

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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    ImGoodlady69- Its hard to say without taking in all the variables (i dont know the lad). Therefore i cant give a definitive answer, but i will say judging on the amount of effort he is putting into you, yeah he probably is looking for a relationship.
    Why not test him. By this i mean the next time you see, dont have sex.Just say not tonight or make up an excuse. If his mood changes negitively (this will be obvious) then that might give you more of an indicator of what he really wants from you.However if it remains the same, just ask him outright, whether heis in it for the sex, or a relationship

    Hope this helps

    sarge
    If you dont ask, you wont get.

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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    I will tell you this.....When guys are already getting sex, guys make effort for three reasons
    1) To maintain getting sex
    2) In the pursuit of something meaningful
    3) To save face because they feel its something they need to do. (AFC's do this)

    His effort to show you a Poe museum CLEARLY shows hes paying attention to detail. And he either thought of you when he heard about the Poe museum, or searched for something you would like.,...either way its to impress you. And he doestn even have to do this since hes already having sex, which means he wants more ( doesnt seem like its a half assed attempt to do something nice because he feels he has to).

    definitely withold sex to test his reaction. But DONT DO IT when he plans a date. Reward the poor bastard with sex for that effort, but I suggest you make plans for a date and then make it a non sexual night. And dont make excuses for not having sex (running late, meet at the venue, say you have to leave early, youre on period). I would even push a little more after the sexless night and not contact him until he contacts you. Then after that, go ahead and dive right in and fall in love

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    ImaGoodlady69 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Does he want a relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by uluvtheLD View Post
    I will tell you this.....When guys are already getting sex, guys make effort for three reasons
    1) To maintain getting sex
    2) In the pursuit of something meaningful
    3) To save face because they feel its something they need to do. (AFC's do this)

    His effort to show you a Poe museum CLEARLY shows hes paying attention to detail. And he either thought of you when he heard about the Poe museum, or searched for something you would like.,...either way its to impress you. And he doestn even have to do this since hes already having sex, which means he wants more ( doesnt seem like its a half assed attempt to do something nice because he feels he has to).

    definitely withold sex to test his reaction. But DONT DO IT when he plans a date. Reward the poor bastard with sex for that effort, but I suggest you make plans for a date and then make it a non sexual night. And dont make excuses for not having sex (running late, meet at the venue, say you have to leave early, youre on period). I would even push a little more after the sexless night and not contact him until he contacts you. Then after that, go ahead and dive right in and fall in love
    Actually we hung out recently and he was the one that withheld from sex lol. He said that he didn't want stay in and have sex all day. It was really nice out that day and we walked around the park. Thanks for the reply. It was really detailed!


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