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    Question Can someone show where I went wrong?

    So I've been testing the water of online dating, I've started on POF but I may expand depending on my results.

    I'm satisfied with my profile but I'm not sure about my online game so here's a convo I had with a girl that ended mid way through with no reply.

    Me: I've read your profile and notice something that I can't say about many girls on this website, you actually have a personality. Screw that, you actually have a pulse. (This isn't my opener, saw it on here and found it works really well)

    Her: And i can say you actually make me laugh lol. So its a good start all around then ha ha xx

    Me:What can I say, I aim to please lol. Yeah, try not to screw it up, no pressure! ha x

    Her:Ha ha pressure can be good at times lol i think so anyways lol x

    Me:Haha, yeah I work better under pressure you too? lol x

    Her: Well i have motivational issues lol, coursework and anythin important usually gets done tue night before its due lol but thats when i do my best work lol xx

    Me:"motivational issues" sounds like code for I'm lazy haha! I'm the same though lol xx

    Her: cheeky lil git im not gunna deny it but im not gunna confirm it either lol ha ha
    Well if its something that i dont like then ye i have issues but if i like it i usually dont have a problem its just that most stuff i dont like lol xx

    Me:Haha, I know that feeling! What are you studying? x

    It seemed like it was going really well, then I just blew it with that last message? Any help would be awesome

    Oh and if you could help me on how to re-open to that girl that would also be awesome. I was thinking "Looks like someone couldn't handel the pressure" or something?
    Last edited by CriticalRap; 04-07-2012 at 04:47 PM.

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    I would send something along the lines of.

    :Lucky you have good looks, caus Lazyiness is not the most attractive thing. (and then I would back that up with something along the lines of) Apart from you looks, please tell me you have got something else going for you , can you cook a nice home cooked meal.

    She will hopefully come back and qualify her self to you.

    then you can get talking about cooking, Keep it cocky

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    As far as I can tell the conversation is okay. Its nothing thats interesting and as far as a number or a hook up your not making the progress. How long have you waited for her to respond? As my own general rule of thumb give her about 3 or 4 days to reply back even if you have seen her online (You'll look less desperate). And when you do come back to say something make yourself sound confident? I generally comeback with "Thanks for helping me win a bet with a friend" and she will usually be curious about what the bet was but just keep going on in your conversation teasing her but never actually telling her.

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    My advice would be send this exact message, has worked with 100 percent effectiveness for me in this situation.
    *Profile name) the kids are worried sick! you dont call, you never write and Lexi (our dog) says he misses you

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    Sideways, I love it. Just putting you line through a Field Test now on POF with a few girls I stopped convos with. First one replied within 10 mins with,
    Bahahahaa, top email,

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    Cheers for the help guys, it's given me an idea on where I need to improve

    Also I've been trying out a new opener, it's pretty simple but it seems to work "You remind me of someone, I just can't think who!" What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Can someone show where I went wrong?

    from what I see, you used too many emoticons, lols, and haha's. Don't use them and see what happens. IMO you come across more alpha and not so goofy when you don't use them after every thought, it almost seems like you need validation. I'm not trying to slam on ya, cos this a personal perference and it might suit your personality, idk.

    I also note that you had some ok lines, a bit too long and not enough change...keep moving through the topics, don't game on her reactions, let her react to your game. So yeah, I hope this helps. I am not a expert but these are my thoughts, and good luck good sir!

    the fail point could be she is busy or your last response killed all that you built by asking her a question you both don't care about...that just don't line up to the tone you set...you should have climaxed with a Number Close...a cocky but future forshadow line that puts the both of you together in a fun way down the road...

    Peace my friend, and again, good luck!

    report back.


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