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    Default When should i call?

    A friend of mine introduced me to one of his female friends(21 yrs old) last friday afternoon(4/6/12) and the 3 of us all hung out for a few hours and had a ton of fun.

    We didnt really get a chance to learn much about each other but There was definately mutual interest/attraction and she seemed very enthusiastic about hanging out again, and we then talked for about 15 min on the phone saturday and i suggested we go hiking(something she told me she likes to do) but she wasnt going to be available until thurs afternoon(bc of a hectic school/work schedule and sunday being easter w/ her family) so we agreed on thursday, and i told her i would call her wednesday night to hammer out any details.

    All this to ask, should I be calling/txting her anytime before wednesday just to talk or watever to keep fresh in her mind or just wait until wednesday, i dont want to come off as needy but also dont know what goes through a girl's mind wen a plan is made almost a week out but she doesnt hear from the guy in between?

    I'm not new to dating but since now i have always been able to secure an in person meet within a couple of days of meeting a new girl. And i hate talking over the phone with a new girl, i prefer getting to know them and getting more comfortable w/ each other in person before getting all "talky" over the phone

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    Default Re: When should i call?

    Quote Originally Posted by StillLearning View Post
    A friend of mine introduced me to one of his female friends(21 yrs old) last friday afternoon(4/6/12) and the 3 of us all hung out for a few hours and had a ton of fun.

    We didnt really get a chance to learn much about each other but There was definately mutual interest/attraction and she seemed very enthusiastic about hanging out again, and we then talked for about 15 min on the phone saturday and i suggested we go hiking(something she told me she likes to do) but she wasnt going to be available until thurs afternoon(bc of a hectic school/work schedule and sunday being easter w/ her family) so we agreed on thursday, and i told her i would call her wednesday night to hammer out any details.

    All this to ask, should I be calling/txting her anytime before wednesday just to talk or watever to keep fresh in her mind or just wait until wednesday, i dont want to come off as needy but also dont know what goes through a girl's mind wen a plan is made almost a week out but she doesnt hear from the guy in between?

    I'm not new to dating but since now i have always been able to secure an in person meet within a couple of days of meeting a new girl. And i hate talking over the phone with a new girl, i prefer getting to know them and getting more comfortable w/ each other in person before getting all "talky" over the phone
    definitely wait until Wednesday. Calling too soon shows you have nothing else on your mind and lowers your social value. Either call Wednesday night, as you agreed, or if you want to test wait until Thursday morning. If she's very interested, she could end up calling you Wed night if you don't. Also, trying to schedule last minute makes you seem like you have alot going on. It may also gauge how attracted to you she is, if she needs to move her schedule around to be free. (The more willing she is to drop everything, the better job at attraction you did)


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