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    rjimenez is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    I am a newbie in the pickup girls world and I have in my hands this girl that openly accepts that she is a player.

    She has orbiters, not many because she just finished a LTR, she shit test me all the time, she is very self confident, and she keeps on giving me ioi's. Se is not tremendously cute (like a 6 or 7), but her personality is awesome. She would let me touch her a lot, we hold hands, she sits on my lap in public, but she never touches me back, and she doesn't want to kiss me and of course no sex.

    I read in another thread in this forum, an advise to deal with female players, and basically the bottom line was: "1. play hard to get, 2. not to play into her frame, and 3. Keep the sexual tension"

    I think I have been able to do all of that with some sort of success relative to my experience. Last night we came down to my place, had romantic dinner, got drunk and danced romantic songs until 3 AM. Lots of touching, and IOIs, but no sex and no kisses. I feel stuck and do not know how to move on. I feel that if I do not succeed soon in taking her to bed with me, she will outgame me and I will fall into the friends zone...

    Any advices?

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Hehehe, these girls are funny.

    I have a question. A very important question...


    Does she do this/Do you think she does this with other guys? Behind your back?

    The reason she does not get sexual is probably because she is playing multiple guys, and does not want to get too close to any of them (as she's having too much fun being the middle of the world).

    They like variety. They don't want a serious relationship (and all that goes with it), and would only prefer one night stands.

    *Do NOT let her make you her bitch.

    Anyway, the answer you reply with to my question will explain a LOT.
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    20Nation is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Usually the best card to play with these girls is jealousy. Go find another girl and bring her around. Just go for a girl who is really skinny or taller. Even if a girl like that isn't much prettier, women perceive them to be much prettier because how they value being tall and skinny (typical model). But because tall and really skinny isn't super attractive to men, you can usually pull girls like this pretty easily.

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Is that a girl you want in your life? To me it just seems your not deep down connected with what you want and she is getting her rocks off by it. Honestly, I would just put her in the friends zone as someone to go out with to have a good time or if its a girl you want in your life you have to do what a man does. Lead the interactions and lead this to where you want it to go. If it doesn't comply and is in same state, as she just got out of a LTR, then move on...

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    rjiminez,

    chet25's advice here is solid. You're the prize. Always be prepared to walk away.ALWAYS.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Agreed. I just broke up with a player girl. They aren't worth it, and consistently shift between multiple guys.
    Always feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Aren't we player guys? We are practicing PU just to get Laid and become experienced do what is wrong when a girl is a player?

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    Default Re: I am dating a player girl, how should I play?

    Sound like a great opportunity as a Pivot and or practice your skills.
    But watch out i have been a toy before and it sucks d#ck but you aren't getting any of it!
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