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    Default How do you know if first date went well?

    I met a girl on facebook 3 or 4 days ago. Anyways I just hung out with her today. We got frozen yogurt because we didn't have time to do anything else. We were only able to hang out for about 30 minutes. We chatted and got to know each other. She asked questions so I took that as a good thing or at least I hope so. I was a little shy and nervous. I always am. I hugged her bye and said I had a good time and she said the same thing to me. So I texted her about 15 min afterwards. That I enjoyed meeting her. She said "she was sorry for being chatty and talking my ears off. Thats just how she is when shes nervous" So I think that is good. I said "Its all good and I was nervous too." She texted me back saying "have fun at your grandmothers and just text me when you are free "

    So do you guys think this is good? We have been constantly texting the last few days so I was just a little surprised she told me just to text her later. I'm probably just overthinking things. Also, she is a real big Christian girl, so I don't really know how to flirt with her and stuff. I don't want to be too aggressive but I also don't wanna get put in that "friend zone"

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    Default Re: How do you know if first date went well?

    Base it by how you feel. If you thinking about her now, then it went well and had a good experience then it well for you. Otherwise stop over-thinking the short meet-up which will allow you to f up a good thing.

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    Default Re: How do you know if first date went well?

    Yeah Adam don't be worried man these are all good signs. I will say keep the texting to a minimum though. Digital gaming that isn't frequently back up by real life interaction creates a false sense of security. You excell emotionally but not physically, which will make your encounters akward. There IS such a thing as texting too much, and the more you text the easier it is to slip up on something stupid. Plus, you don't want to be that guy who is glued to his phone. It's a dlv.
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    Default Re: How do you know if first date went well?

    Sounds like you two are compatible. You both seem rather conservative, shy, and a bit insecure. If you are aware of those qualities, you can use them to your advantage. You have to be the Alpha , regardless, but you definitely have to take it slow with this one. By this I mean: I would Kino escalate with girls and quickly, but since she doesnt seem like that type... any little physical contact will be very meaningful with her. But remember.....always be escalating, no matter where you started off with her and what she is like.

    This seemed like a quick "meet and see what you are like" date. The next one should be an actual date... and dazzle her. Take her somewhere fun and show her you are a fun guy and flirt a little. Since shes conservative, definitely make eye contact ( at opportune times) until she looks away. Look at her lips, until she looks away. If you dont kiss close this girl on that first official date ( since shes conservative, and you might want to let her wonder why you didnt kiss her, she will wonder if you wanted to , she will wonder why you didnt, etc), definitely kiss her the next time you guys meet up after that date.


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