dreadful oneitis. lives from a distance away. I met her at a club when I was out of town and had somewhat of good game on her that night. we went home to Her place. before I left town next day I asked how to contact her and she gave me contact information. its been rolling wonderful since then.
since she lives from a distance we have been dating kind of intensely on weekends(she has been sleeping over at my place). somehow she was not unfamiliar to the idea to come to my place for whole weekend after we met (we went halfway and I would pick her up by car).
we've had a perfect relationship-thing going during these intense times. laughing, flirting, teasing, shes been giving me compliments and we both agreed so many times that we like how we talk to eachother,great sex and I've played some kind of game with her about "not going too fast with things", like neg/teasing her after we parted "Oh are you one of those girls who are going to text me aaall the time now?" and she would be like "Nonono, and you are not going to text me!"
what happens? we text whole week. she takes initiative, and I have too, I use some late response technique and suddenly on actual friday night the weekend after she texts me she would soon be at this same little town where I picked her up last weekend. So I'm like "oh yeah are you going to a party or something?". I knew it was a suggestion but I just played it cool and waited.
I picked her up. we had another good weekend. She seems all into me in many ways. and we're still playing this role "not boyfriend and girlfriend"
I'm really getting into her. She texted me in beginning of week and we had a few texts rolling and I noticed her responsing more slowly than usual,(by the way we moved from facebook to SMS-texting during this week) I started noticing how slow she actually was like right before bedtime. so I would be like "yeah its been a rough day so good night" and she would give a quick SMS back, being a little emotional last night about a sad family thing that I told her about that happened the night before. so she sent me some text about that it will be alright and a kiss emoticon after.
I was like fark yeah. I decided to play it cool and did not text her for all morning, I felt I sent negative emotional feelings when telling her about this so I would just turn it around to text her by lunch that I had a great day at work.
Now... no response in all day. Nothing happened.
is she freezing me out? She's been so eager for my attention all this time. Is she trying to (I read on another post) try to make be build more attachment to her by not responding, because she just really likes me that much? or did I do anything wrong?
yeah this is a distance dating thing. it will be complex and I will see where it leads. and I try to keep my cool and be prepared for the worse; Not seeing her again. Also, we planned lightly in a "maybe" way earlier that I would go to Her place this coming weekend and because of this non-response thing I became a little unsure of whether I should push it to visit her, or not.
HELP PLEASE ; -) getting crazy over this.