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    Default im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    I met this friend of a friend last weekend and got her number she acted a little bit like she was interested I made a mistake and took my friend's advice wait 3 days... I actually ended up seeing her at the gas station but she didn't see me so here's the conversation

    ME: Holy crap I think I just saw you I could be wrong this is Corey BTW

    Her: Corey?? Who.

    This is an inside joke from when I first met her so she would know it was me without being boring and giving her my full name.

    Me: Oh come on Pinky I know you burnt that nickname lol but I had to use it one last time

    Her: Lmao...ohhh..u.haha. .what u doing?

    I saw this line somewhere along time ago don't ask me where I don't remember haha..

    Me: Bout to go rob a bank wanna be my get away driver ... Getting ready to rest it's been a long day, HBU how much trouble have you caused since we last saw each other

    Her: Lol.. I try to stay OUT of trouble....so..no getaway driver. Lol... but ur more than welcome to share with me... Lmao... n yes it has been a long day.. I'm at a mutual friend's house

    Me: Lol damn no get away driver I guess my plans are shot now haha .. Idk bout sharing maybe if you use it to help break me out if I got caught haha ..

    Her: Lol oh most deffinately!

    Me: yes I like ur style, so was that us I saw earlier or was it the other her FIRST AND LAST NAME.

    Her: Lmao where at??

    Me:Casey's in town I was getting gas in 2 vehicles then I washed my windows I caught her outta the corner of my eye and I saw a Ford Focus running in the parking lot but never saw her lol

    Her: Lol her..as in me...me...lmao

    I stole some of this from an episode of How I met your Mother prolly not the greatest idea but it seemed to work

    Me: Haha you never know there might be an identical twin out there running around doppleganger everyone supposedly has one yours would be causing all kinds of of trouble and would love black instead of pink.. Mine would love white instead of black only drink liquor and be dull and boring glad I never met him.

    Her: Lmao!!

    Now I waited a day to text her back just cause I didn't want to seem desperate or that and I left the conversation on a good note, so this was WED and I didn't text her at all thurs I sent her a text last night about a 9:45 pm

    Me: Oh wow I just saw something that reminded me of you. Thursday 9:45 pm

    It's 7:49 Fri night and I haven't heard anything back now.. LAST FRIDAY NIGHT


    I waited till today and sent this


    WE DO IT in bed, WE DO IT on the sofa, WE DO IT on the table, WE EVEN DO IT in the car. Yup... we LOVE TEXTING . Send to everyone you DO IT WITH..



    Now since this is pretty much forwarding format is maybe why no reply, what would be a good line to send after and how long should I wait to send it I know not on the weekend cuz it dlv but it's possibility that I might see her this weekend idk..

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    It's getting late for me here, but I will tell you this:

    You're texts are WAYY too long.

    Notice how with most of her 6 word texts, you reply with a paragraph. That's dlv. Always keep your texts shorter than hers.


    Remember to wait about an hour+ before texting back, if you reply too soon, that's DLV.



    Me: Haha you never know there might be an identical twin out there running around doppleganger everyone supposedly has one yours would be causing all kinds of of trouble and would love black instead of pink.. Mine would love white instead of black only drink liquor and be dull and boring glad I never met him.
    Sorry to break it to you man, but this didn't work. It was VERY long, there's a chance she might know exactly where the line is from (DLV). Women tend to watch a lot of TV shows, and talk about a lot of TV Shows among eachother. Her "Lmao!!" was a generic "I'm done talking to you, but I wan't want to seem like a b!tch".


    WE DO IT in bed, WE DO IT on the sofa, WE DO IT on the table, WE EVEN DO IT in the car. Yup... we LOVE Texting . Send to everyone you DO IT WITH..
    This just destroyed it :/ It really shows desperation.


    **Look at the length of her texts, the context, and how much interaction is involved in reply to your previous text, as positive feedback**


    There are many girls that can turn away from someone, without it being blatantly obvious.


    Live and learn brother. We've all been there at some point.

    Remember, that those who learn the hard way, are the most successful in the end.

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    Her: Lol her..as in me...me...lmao

    What I Would Have Said: Yeah, you backed into a fire hydrant before you left. << USE negs!!! (Bad Driving)


    You could have possibly saved yourself by saying something such as this. Remember to use negs so you aren't smothering her! Also keep in mind not to make it too harsh!
    Always feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    your texting is solid until that last one about doing it. Your first problem was that you probably hurt her feelings a little by stopping the conversation without saying anything, so she's not going to be as compliant with you the next time you text her as she would be if you had said goodnight or said you had to do something/sleep, or if she had not responded to your text last.

    then when you send the text the day later, you made the mistake of not asking a question...so she doesn't have to answer if she's not feeling compliant which she's not because of that break in rapport from abruptly ending the text.

    you should send something asking a question or response-invoking if you want her return a text now

    if she doesn't respond there's one that always works for text recescuitation: "omg I just saw a cat who looks exactly like you, please let me know that you are ok and haven't been transformed into a cat by a wizard."

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    I don't think there serious amount of damage cuz she may just think that was a forward from the last text but ya I get what your saying I will try the cat thing after a week of waiting but I would rather tweak it lemme know your thoughts?


    OMG (HER NAME) I just saw the cutest kitten looked exactly like you, please tell me you did not divulge yourself in Wicca and turn yourself into a cat?


    how is that it's a compliment with being playful and funny I loved yours besides the wizard part.. I have nothing to go off with the wizard but if she does reply then that means I could use Style's spell routine and build some rapport then try to arrange a date ..

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    honestly don't like the wicca thing as much as the wizard. W/ the wizard it sounds like you're looking out for her well-being in a silly way, the wicca route sounds more like breaking rapport because you're not looking out for her you're making it sound like she's gone crazy.

    the wizard opener is a classic it usually works it's just for text resuscitation, you don't need to seriously delve into details just get a response.

    Honestly I think there was not so much damage that a simple text that asks a question/requires a response would work, but again you have to judge that. Better to make it something silly/clever though since she hasn't responded to your last 2 messages

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    She just liked my status on Facebook idk if that means anything or not it was "im watching tomorrow today, what do I mean I am watching Friday :-D.. Thoughts? ?

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    Listen to OKE, sorry but he is the only one that is giving you honest advice.

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    Right I am assuming she is a lost cause as for now cuz the initial interaction is way stale and I lost her attention in the text convo I am just waiting to see her again or give it a few weeks and send her one last flake text message along the line of maybe ... I haven't seen her in 3 weeks so she prolly having another interaction witg someone .. Like Okee said live and learn

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    Default Re: im kinda confused on what to do here it's been really cold from her..

    Yea, prob blown. But I like this line when a convo has gone dead, its borrowed off another poster on here.
    "(her name) the kids miss you, I tried texting and even calling we are getting worried, and Lexi (our dog) says hi."


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