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    Default Should I respond after missed date

    Hi all,

    Talked to this girl on OKC for a bit. We exchanged numbers and set a time to meet. About an hour before we were supposed to get together she texted me that her sister got in a car accident and she had to go help her and wanted to take a raincheck.

    I just responded "Hope she is ok, get in touch if you are around again . . ."

    So I obviously never got back in touch with her. Just now, about a week after all this happened, she called me. I didn't answer and she did not leave a message.

    How do you recommend I respond? Should I text her something, or just ignore the call? I am seeing someone else Saturday, but could hang out with her Sunday as I have no better plans at the moment.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Should I respond after missed date

    Call her back. Sometimes $hit happens.
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    Default Re: Should I respond after missed date

    I don't think this sounds like a flake. You should comtact and ask about her sister, IMO.

    Quote Originally Posted by hereweare View Post
    Hi all,

    Talked to this girl on OKC for a bit. We exchanged numbers and set a time to meet. About an hour before we were supposed to get together she texted me that her sister got in a car accident and she had to go help her and wanted to take a raincheck.

    I just responded "Hope she is ok, get in touch if you are around again . . ."

    So I obviously never got back in touch with her. Just now, about a week after all this happened, she called me. I didn't answer and she did not leave a message.

    How do you recommend I respond? Should I text her something, or just ignore the call? I am seeing someone else Saturday, but could hang out with her Sunday as I have no better plans at the moment.

    Thanks!

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    hereweare is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I respond after missed date

    Thanks! Stuff does happen. Hopefully it was a true story (not that a car accident is a good thing). I'll call her and let her buy me a drink for missing our date.


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