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    JacobWYC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    This girl goes to same class and got her facebook and her phone number. But she lives so far away from me and It's kind of hard to ask her out because the place she lives is near the country side. so, I was wonderin how i can ask her to go have dinner with me, Should i just ask her after class? Or make plans before then?

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    Default Re: Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    You can just go out with her after school. Don't go for dinner. First dates should always be cheap because blowing money conveys you have to do something extra to be good enough for her - while she should be lucky to be with you. Go for a walk, eat ice cream, have a coffee, etc. And use Kino to show your interest.

    However, since she is in your class it's important to determine whether or not you're in the friend zone first. Tell us more about her. How long have you known her for? How does she act around you? Does she show IOIs? What do you do together?

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    Default Re: Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    Don't be a chump dude, you are over thinking. Just ask her out. It's not rocket science, even with out following any PUA rules if you went and asked 10 random girls out 1 will say yes. The more you do it the better your odds will get. I like trying things I hear from PUA books and what not, but I didn't hear about the PUA community until after I was already dating 3-4 girls a week, so I just try things I hear about occasionally to see how effective they are. But you could learn it just by trial and error and be just fine. You won't hit any home runs if you don't swing the bat!

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    JacobWYC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    It's my first year in uni. And she's in my tutorial class, we've been talking everyday on facebook. She gave me her phone number and stuff.

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    Default Re: Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    Yeah definitely be careful of the Friends Zone on this one. Getting a facebook and number from a classmate is no big deal at all. Happens all the time.

    I wouldn't suggest madtownguy's advice of just playing a numbers game. While he is correct that eventually someone will say yes, thats WEAK game in my opinion. This is not some stranger at a bar you will never see again, this is a classmate. It will be rather awkward if she says no.....and she will likely talk about you... its up to you if she talks about you if you are creeper or a stud.

    The proper appraoch is to follow some of the seduction guidelines to build attraction and induce desire. And always be escalating.... Yo got her number and facebook... ok thats nowhere near enough unless you are extraordinarily attractive and charming. Walk her after class a couple of times and create attraction. Flirt, be funny, be fun, be charming. Do some Kino. Then ask her out. This should all be done within a few days or 1.5 weeks MAX.

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    Default Re: Okay this girl lives 1 hour 30mins away from me!

    I have this kind of dating right now myself. The 1st date was unusually easy for me to go through with. I was on a trip at work and met this girl at the club. We started talking I was doing some Kino, she would pick my hand and drag me around the club, to the dancefloor, etc and we were like "lets not leave eachother". I picked up her facebook and she came to me for 4 whole days on easter, 24/7.

    What I tried to make sure of was that I would be "THE MAN" in this. I would show her things, I would go 2 steps forward and 1 step back on escalation and I would just have fun with her. She said "yeahh so are you a killer?" since we didnt really know eachother. And I would be like 130% sarcastic all the time and I Noticed how she loved it.

    so what I have done and what has worked for Me is just making sure she will want more of you after you have actually met in person on a date. And be the one who likes to takes charge sometimes physically. (I would flip her over and drag her into me and just look her into the eyes and things like this. Of course you dont do this right away but after some kino it will be possible)

    PS. Not an expert. I am in training and just referring to my current situation.


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