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    iWhat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    So quick background info. I met this girl last week at a bar for my friends birthday party, all of her friends were so excited for us to meet. It was made awkward a bit when we were introduced to each other about 4 or 5 times. So I saw her sitting by herself, so I sat down and said "Hi! I'm _____ I don't think we've been introduced yet.
    It got a really good laugh out of her and we hit it off right away, I ended up number closing without a problem but when I talk to her I seem to get very short 1 to 2 word replies.

    So I decided to compliment her to see if she opened up a bit.


    Me: I must say, I think you have a really cute smile, very similar to the one on your face, right........now
    Her: Aha just knew I'd smile at that ? Thanks :$
    Me: Just a guess, was it an accurate one? Or am I way off
    Her: couldn't be any more accurate

    And I went on to end the conversation and tell her I was crashing and she made me promise to talk to her again soon.

    She seems to eat up the compliments and I've gotten a number of ioi's Im just not sure how to continue this, i feel like I'm boring her when I just talk about random things, but as soon as I compliment her she just lights up.

    So I suppose my question is should I be only texting her compliments and flattery? Or is it possible to have that in mix with a conversation, I find it hard to hold a normal conversation with her.

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    iWhat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    Anything guys? You're killin me

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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    Hey iWhat,

    Buy a Cosmopolitan magazine - go through it making a list of what you think might interest her as a girl. Come up with about 5 topics. Then make a list of stuff that interest you.

    Don't compliment her anymore. In a previous post I mentioned the text line: Hey, I just saw somebody that reminds me of you. When she responds. Arrange to meet up for a few drinks and use your topics to converse. The alcohol plus your topics should make it a great date.

    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    She just sounds shy and submissive to me. I'd push the kiss close hard, because I really don't think she'd have it in her to reject you. Also, don't overdo the flattery because she'll tire of it soon. Dish out the compliments at seemingly random times so you maintain an element of mystery and unpredictability.

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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    Rs5096 that's fantastic!! Thank you that helps a lot

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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    BAM, level 99 friend zone. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong but all I can do is friend zone myself left right and center. Oh well maybe next time

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    Default Re: Not sure where to go with this friend of a friend

    Hey iWhat?

    What happened?

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