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    TheRollingStone is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post Is the "friend zone" just a myth?

    I wanted to start a little debate...

    I propose that the "friend-zone" whereas the girl automatically puts you into her metaphorical friend's list is only a myth and is only a demonstration of a male's own insecurity to justify not going after a particular girl.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Is the "friend zone" just a myth?

    I'll bite.

    The "friend zone" is very real IMO. However the idea that once you are put there you are eternally doomed is a myth. After all I myself once I picked up a lot of game went back and began banging all the girls who had ever put me in the friends zone before. Through use of Kino Escalation and aggressiveness it is quite possible to hump the girls that put you in the friends zone. After all the friends zone is really just being stuck at comfort and not having the correct game to push past her LMR in a useful way. But in seduction terms.. comfort is comfort IMO and once you have the proper game to push through LMR you can get laid by that girl who put you in the friends zone.

    However the chances of the girl having a serious case of buyer's remorse is exponentially higher and lots of other negative outcomes to the sexual encounter can manifest themselves. I've had girls who literally freaked out and never came around again, afraid that the sexual encounter would occur again. I've had them rationalize the sex away as a freak accident, or a result of alcohol. I've had them upgrade me into a strange hybrid "friends with benefits box".

    But the idea of her becoming your girlfriend and falling in love with you after you've been put into the friends box is patently false. I've never had a girl who put me in the box and having gotten myself out again, become a regular or steady lay or girlfriend. Typically they turn on the rationalization hamster and run away and never come around again because they feel now your "Friendship" is ruined and they cannot trust themselves(or you) around them in private anymore and they definitely don't see you as "boyfriend" material. This is fine if all you ever wanted to do was conquer the girl, but if you have developed emotional attachments this can be extremely damaging to the man who finally gets the sex only to see her disappear from his social circle.

    However, the "lets just be friends" coming from the lips of a woman you just met or haven't known very long is often used as a "nice" way for her to reject a man without hurting his feelings.

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    Default Re: Is the "friend zone" just a myth?

    I agree in part with TSM.

    I believe that the friendzone is quite real, and that once you get put there it is highly unlikely that you will be successful with the girl in the future. Of course it CAN happen. That's what we teach here and it obviously works, but it doesn't have a 100% success ratio. There will always be things that are out of your control where she will not be willing to budge. A great example of this because I've had a lot of experience in the department is psycho-conservative Christian girls. Once their mind is set, you might as well give up. I've pushed those who aren't entirely grounded but looking back it wasn't work the consequences. You open up a can of worms that just wasn't worth it.

    Honestly, just walk away from any girl who friendzones you. There are too many out there to get hung up on just one. Don't be a slave to your infatuations. You can learn. You can adapt. You can change.

    I might have gotten off topic idk lol :P
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    Default Re: Is the "friend zone" just a myth?

    I'm currently going through this friend zone stuff myself. See my other posts for more details, but I'm going to test this theory out, and try my best through gaming that I can break down that friend zone wall! lol


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