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    Default Called out on ONS, recovery? critique

    I'm pretty new at this so any critique is welcome. I flirted with a bartender last night and met up with her later for a Number Close. She said "call me anytime" with a kiss which I figured meant "Let's bone tonight" so I texted later, I was drunk so I probably could have done better:

    ME: Hey, it's that awesome sexy guy you were talking to. We're looking for something to do. Where are you guys?
    HER: Hey, I'm about to go home
    HER: I'm not a One Night Stand kinda girl
    ME: Well now that's just sexist (I usually do this in person and it's funny with sarcasm. but back fired in text)
    HER: No I'm just not a whore (which she kinda is from what I hear)
    ME: What do you take me for! I was just gonna cuddle I swear
    HER: Haha I'm so sure who wants to cuddle at 3am?
    HER: I don't like to cuddle anyways.
    ME: You just haven't cuddled with a pro then. I'm passing out, I'll call you later maybe.
    HER: I won't hold my breath

    I felt I had the upper hand so I ended it. All of her replies were immediate compared to mine. But I think I missed a chance to escalate on my last line, what do you think?

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    Default Re: Called out on ONS, recovery? critique

    Quote Originally Posted by legato View Post
    I'm pretty new at this so any critique is welcome. I flirted with a bartender last night and met up with her later for a Number Close. She said "call me anytime" with a kiss which I figured meant "Let's bone tonight" so I texted later, I was drunk so I probably could have done better:

    ME: Hey, it's that awesome sexy guy you were talking to. We're looking for something to do. Where are you guys?
    HER: Hey, I'm about to go home
    HER: I'm not a one night stand kinda girl
    ME: Well now that's just sexist (I usually do this in person and it's funny with sarcasm. but back fired in text)
    HER: No I'm just not a whore (which she kinda is from what I hear)
    ME: What do you take me for! I was just gonna cuddle I swear
    HER: Haha I'm so sure who wants to cuddle at 3am?
    HER: I don't like to cuddle anyways.
    ME: You just haven't cuddled with a pro then. I'm passing out, I'll call you later maybe.
    HER: I won't hold my breath

    I felt I had the upper hand so I ended it. All of her replies were immediate compared to mine. But I think I missed a chance to escalate on my last line, what do you think?
    Wow, what a Bitch Shield/sh1t test all wrapped into one. I've had so many near misses with hot bartenders. You have to have your game in 100% tip top shape because it's kinda like a long range sniper shot. Everything needs to be just right. Humidity, temperature, wind speed and direction, everything. Miss the shot, end up seeing your target vanish into the thin air. One shot, one chance.

    My question is why did you assume that "call me anytime" means, "bone me tonight"? It seems to me to be an obvious thing that every guy who gets her number tries to bone her that night and she's screening against that.

    You need to neg her a little to get her value down and then comfort comfort comfort comfort. I wouldn't even worry about "Friends Zone" with a hot bartender because she is guaranteed to have a social circle of hotties in which you can penetrate. That would be my secondary goal because to me the social value she offers you would get you laid by a lot more women IMO. But that doesn't mean don't bone her if the chance arises. This can be recovered I'm sure, she obviously is testing you to see what you do in your next text, etc. Forget the text, you'll have to call her and smooth this over directly. Every asshole out there probably texts her. People are forgetting the value of a good voice conversation.

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    Default Re: Called out on ONS, recovery? critique

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Wow, what a Bitch Shield/Sh1t Test all wrapped into one. I've had so many near misses with hot bartenders. You have to have your game in 100% tip top shape because it's kinda like a long range sniper shot. Everything needs to be just right. Humidity, temperature, wind speed and direction, everything. Miss the shot, end up seeing your target vanish into the thin air. One shot, one chance.

    My question is why did you assume that "call me anytime" means, "bone me tonight"? It seems to me to be an obvious thing that every guy who gets her number tries to bone her that night and she's screening against that.
    I know it should have been obvious! I got a big head from drinking and heard a few stories about her from my friend her boss. She mentioned going to an art show at a bar next weekend, I figure that will be my best shot. If she picks up the phone.


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