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    Default Do I Bother with this girl I met?

    Just left a meet up. I wasn't feeling it. Maybe some IOIs with her flipping her hair and fidgeting with her earrings. But then again, I tried maintaining eye contact, but she mostly looked left or right, and at one point she rubbed her nose (in a way in which I would never do in front of a chick). Anyway, when we parted she mentioned having to meet up again, I was kind of cool about it, evoking sort of a "yeah, right" attitude, like this isn't my first rodeo, I know this is just lip service. Our texts were very flirty and fun, but that same energy wasn't there tonight.

    Do I bother texting her again? I mean, she's a solid HB8, but what would I even say? It seemed rather dead.

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    Default Re: Do I Bother?

    It's completely up to you and how you feel about it. If you didn't "feel" it, you could either go in with a much chattier/happier Mindset next time. Or you could just drop the girl. If you only go out with her because she's hot, next time tell her you want to be friends with benefits and do nothing but farking her.

    Whatever you choose, despite the disappointing vibe she's still into you because she mentioned she wanted to meet up again. She wouldn't do so if she didn't.

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    Default Re: Do I Bother with this girl I met?

    Was she very SHY? breaking the eye contact can be a sign of been shy.
    maybe she needs to relax a tad more around you.
    Other wise you could always put her in your friendzone, then meet her friends.

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    Default Re: Do I Bother with this girl I met?

    After thinking about it, I figured I had nothing to lose, so I texted her. It was something funny that riffed off our convo last night. Didn't want to go with something generic because it would go against my frame. Anyway, she responded back in 3-minutes with some ha-has and excitement, so I'm guessing that's a good sign. Went back and forth two more times before I left it. I was hoping to see if she'll initiate contact...maybe hit her back up in a day or two if not?

    Dunno if she was shy, maybe. Maybe I read her wrong during the meet?


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